limited - are you suggesting that I'm justifying the smacking?
I'm not thumbwitch, and for what it's worth, I wouldn't do that for a minute with you. I respect your posts.
I had, and always do have another poster in mind whenever the smacking vs reasoning debate comes up, but it wouldn't be fair to name her. I don't think I've ever engaged with her on the subject. What works for her is fine. She's certainly not my idea of a child abuser, she just has a different approach.
But whenever I read her posts I do always think: 'There is another way, you know, and my parents, who were old enough to be your great-grandparents did it.'
In regards to this, I'm just struck by the idea that people were so unenlightened in the '70s.
They weren't, and neither were they in my parents' living memory and therefore I guess for generations before that.
Maybe it's because some of the people who are posting are younger than me.
That's all.