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Day off school to see Santa?

178 replies

MrsPiddlewink · 11/11/2014 15:43

We've left it too late again - hearts set on a particular place this year. The only slots they have left are during the last week of term. Would I be unreasonable to give them a day off? They are 8 and 5.

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Sandiacre · 11/11/2014 20:09

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ZeViteVitchofCwismas · 11/11/2014 20:12

They'd look at the house and the history, science in the gardens.

Dont forget the wonderful animals too!

TheRealMaryMillington · 11/11/2014 20:13

Er, the safari park is open 363 days per year, of which many are, I believe, weekends and school holidays.

Someone else's Christmas tree is never as good as the one you decorate yourself. FACT.

I'm sure it will be perfectly lovely - (in fact, why not just go without your kids) Is it unreasonable to take a day of school for it? Totally.

ZeViteVitchofCwismas · 11/11/2014 20:16

TheRealMaryMillington Tue 11-Nov-14 20:13:15

ER .....

W.H.A.T. A.B.O.U.T T.H.E L.A.N.T.E.R.NS.

TheRealMaryMillington · 11/11/2014 20:18
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nochangewanted · 11/11/2014 20:21

Told you on page 1... There are many people on MN who believe learning only takes place in the classroom and should you take them on a lovely day trip you are essentailly ruining their lives , they will be playing truant have no work ethic.

In all honesty if you want to take them.. You know yes it is breaking the rules, you will have to either lie and say they are both sick or take it on the chin and take a days unauthorised absence. The other option is not to go.

Do what is right for you and your family not the opinions of online strangers .

26Point2Miles · 11/11/2014 20:27

sandiacre guessing they don't want to miss out on money grabbing! A few details like being 3 months too early aren't supposed to be noticed!

LaBelleDameSansPatience · 11/11/2014 20:47

Go and have fun. They'll have great memories.

Olivo · 11/11/2014 21:04

I'd be more pissed off that people thought I just did glittery things and DVDs in the last week of term.

Sooooooooo wrong. No DVDs played in my classroom.

AlpacaPicnic · 11/11/2014 21:42

Take them!
One of my fondest memories from my childhood was the day we randomly didn't go to school, but went to see 'Santa Claus the movie' in the cinema instead. showing my age there! We (my brother and I) were about the same age as your dcs and didn't miss any kind of learning, and as I recall my mum just said we were poorly that day. It was such good fun! We went for pizza and had sweeties in the cinema, it was such a treat.

Although I did go into school the next day and blab to everyone about he film. I was five! I couldn't lie to save my own arse!

Madeyemoodysmum · 11/11/2014 21:53

Go and have fun. I went to Lapland last year and mine missed two days. It's something I'm so pleased we did and gave the children memories for a lifetime. End of school Xmas week is all colouring and visors anyway.

Long least loons lovely. May do that next year myself.

Madeyemoodysmum · 11/11/2014 21:54

Oops longleat looks lovely. Typos!

1hamwich4 · 11/11/2014 21:59

No not education just the need to be in school that day compared to the day out. Which will be once in a lifetime.

This is precisely why I used the word 'education' rather than 'school'.

TBH a Chinese lantern festival sounds pretty fucking awesome to me (rather than the 'trip to Santa' that this thread started off about) and yes, I think there is probably some really cool educational stuff you can get out of it.

Two issues here.

1: The fact that this particular thing has the potential to be educational doesn't negate the point about taking an education seriously. Just because you do naice things whilst skiving school, doesn't mean everyone else will, but the tiny speck of erosion to the general valuing of education remains. Some lucky kids get pulled out to do awesome stuff, others see this and think: I'll have a bit of that. The classic example is the cheap-holiday-at-the-end-of-term argument. So: do you have a social conscience? Do you want your children to have one?

2: Do you really, really think the OP (or anyone else going "Fuck it! Go!") is going to approach this festival with an eye to education- as in; actually learning stuff, rather that going 'ooooo' a lot? I seriously doubt there will be much going on other than wandering round looking at stuff.

Oh, and: once in a lifetime? Well, possibly. I'd be willing to bet, though, that if Longleat make enough money out of it they'll be doing it for years.

MimsyBorogroves · 11/11/2014 22:13

If you're local to longleat and literally just want Santa (and perhaps ice skating?) rather than a full day experience, Whitehall garden centre is very, very good. It's also a lot cheaper.

There might not be lanterns Wink but it would solve the day off school issue.

Personally, I think longleat's Santa train itself is overpriced. Pics know you get the day out too, but the Santa experience in itself is train ride, standing outside in a queue waiting to go in, very quick chat with Santa and photo (only if you pay for theirs) and present, then train ride back. It has an element of magic because of the train, but the actual Santa bit itself is over very quickly. Whitehall, in comparison, has Santa telling 10/15 children a story together, asking them questions about Christmas traditions, talking to them all and posing for photos (with parents cameras!) plus present - it's just a bit more personal and, whilst it's got less 'wow' factor in itself it's also less of a cash cow.

MimsyBorogroves · 11/11/2014 22:14

I've seen some of the lanterns being set up though, and they do look good. But I would go after Christmas, when the crowds have thinned.

AmysTiara · 11/11/2014 22:22

Do it and have a lovely day

SingSongSlummy · 11/11/2014 22:30

Ugh, another one who is sooooo desperate for their children to 'believe' and pay through the nose for it Why can't people make their own magic?

TheOriginalSteamingNit · 11/11/2014 22:33

Oh come on, it's got nothing to do with education, and they will learn nothing except it is nice not to go to school if there's a better offer!

It's about telling the nice man what you want Santa to bring you, and also some lanterns. It's a pathetic reason not to go to school.

YonicScrewdriver · 11/11/2014 22:45

So, about these lanterns... Are they still there on the 28th Dec, cos we are in the area and they sound pretty...

ilovesooty · 11/11/2014 23:01

Oh come on, it's got nothing to do with education, and they will learn nothing except it is nice not to go to school if there's a better offer!

Exactly. I couldn't believe this thread was anything other than a wind up. I wonder why some posters even bother to send their children to school regularly at all.

1hamwich4 · 11/11/2014 23:06

I couldn't believe this thread was anything other than a wind up.

My money is on stealth boast, actually. It's not just any poxy old Santa, you see. There are Chinese lanterns. That's practically cultural.

socksandsandles · 11/11/2014 23:15

Weird, rather than ur. He doesnt actually exist.... Take them down the local pub- You'll see plenty of fat jolly old men there!

Harrin · 11/11/2014 23:18

marmite that sounds lovely. Lucky boys!

PinkOboe · 11/11/2014 23:29

You know it's just someone dressed up right?

Anyway longleat Santa is a soulless conveyor belt. A 15 min queue in the mud to be quickly bunged a present and sold an overpriced photo. Even the reindeer were pissed off last year

Caravanoflove · 11/11/2014 23:53

I'm taking my 7 and 5 year old out to go to lap land uk. I don't give a shot if they miss a day at school.
Be see too many young people die this year to realise life is too short and needs to be lived.

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