One of my DDs let slip that my sons have an external harddrive that contains a large amount of pornography which they pass down like some kind of family heirloom! I remember buying the harddrive for DS1 a few years ago and then it disappearing. Apparently DS2 has had it since at boarding school and now that DS3 is thirteen they are planning to give it to him. My oldest DD who told me this seemed to think it was hilarious in a disgusting way and my DH says boys will be boys and will not talk to them about it. I don't want my DS to be watching this stuff after I read so much about it giving boys strange and terrible ideas about women and I'm dissapointed in my other sons!! AIBU expecting my DH to do more about this?!