My husbands ex is a new parent at our children's school!

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Hi all,
Am I REALLY being in unreasonable? I realised it was her about 4 weeks ago so just avoided her which wasn't too hard as I don't do the school pick up most days. I told my DH about it and he just laughed it off as it was some time ago that they were together, however my DH is in the process of changing jobs so is at home at the moment so we decided to do the school pick up together today. Well as we were standing with our friends my DH decided to out of nowhere go over and talk to the ex for over 10min without any warning at all and leaving me with r friends to answer all their queries on who she is/ where's he gone ect..... I am VERY upset but my DH has put it all on me and says it's MY insecurities so I'm the one with the problem NOT him or the ex. Don't get me wrong I have no problem with him saying hello but it was the way it was done.
Sorry for the rant but am I really the one in. The wrong???
Many thanks x

Why are the friends in the playground getting a hard time on the thread from some of the people responding?

I sometimes reckon people read first sentence of an op and then just don't bother with the rest.

What, so op and dp are in the playground together and he goes off to speak to someone else and their mutual friends aren't supposed to say "who is that your dp has gone off to talk to?" ?? How very odd!

Your friends sound nosey and gossipy were they salivating while asking who she was. So she was his girlfriend at one point in his life most people have exes he said hello and had a chat you are his wife she is an ex for a reason,

Op might have felt insecure, but that doesn't mean that her husband wasn't rude in the way he left her to speak to his ex.

The two things aren't mutually exclusive!