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Pictures of sick and injured children on FB

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flaneurieandme · 27/10/2014 15:53

I've noticed that a lot of people seem to feel the need to post pictures of their kids on Facebook, Twitter etc. when they're poorly or injured. I don't want to offend anyone who does this but I'm sorry, I just don't understand it.

In the last few days I have seen pictures of a 5 year olds badly bruised face after a fall, a toddler's black eye and an older child lying on the sofa looking miserable with a sick bucket next to her. Another Mum I know had posted a few times about how her 8 year old was suffering with Chicken Pox which is fair enough, I can see how you might want a bit of support or sympathy from your friends but did she really need to strip the kid down to her pants and take a photo so everyone on Facebook can see how bad her spots are?

I have even seen a Facebook picture of a toddler lying on a hospital stretcher in her nappy, hooked up to a drip in A&E (nothing hugely serious, just a nasty stomach bug) which I found a bit shocking to be honest. Obviously when I saw the picture I felt a lot of sympathy for the poor thing and her Mum but I also found it bizarre that she'd felt the need to put it on Facebook. I just can't imagine seeing my DC's in that state and thinking "ooh, I must get a photo of this for FB".

Does this baffle anyone else or is it just me? I only use social media very sporadically and have never been the type to put a lot of personal stuff on there so maybe this is completely normal behaviour and I'm just a bit behind the times! Obviously I know people have a right to post what they like on their own page and if you don't like it you can unfollow them etc. I just wondered if I'm the only one that finds it a bit much?

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DontWannaBeObamasElf · 28/10/2014 10:12

I don't like it either. A woman I know posted a photo of her toddlers badly blistered hand with the caption "He got into the wardrobe and grabbed my straighteners! Oops!"

CrashDiveOnMingoCity · 28/10/2014 12:20

Well, I think there's a line between "here is Jessica smiling with her pink cast after she broke her arm" and "here is Emma lying on the sofa, holding a bucket and looking green".

wobblyweebles · 28/10/2014 12:28

I imagine the ones posting from A&E are doing it because they've got 14 hours in the waiting room with nothing to do...

sashh · 28/10/2014 14:37

Does this baffle anyone else or is it just me?

Not just you. I could never understand 'children's hospital' being entertainment, I can see merit as a documentary but not, 'It's 7.30, time to look at some sick kids'

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