I was in hospital two years ago, pretty serious. In intensive care and all the drugs gave me lots of horrendous diarrhoea, bed pan every half hour- poor nurses!
Since then I have had a bit of extra skin on my anus, went to see GP this morning and she told me it is piles and there is nothing to be done. I have no current symptoms or issues with my bowels. I'm 23, no kids, how will I every let a guy see my bum? It doesn't look like the pictures of piles on the internet. It is more a line/flap of extra skin but it doesn't look normal and now I am worried I will never be able to have doggy style ever again. I have just met a guy after being single since before my illness and we haven't had sex yet but he is also young and no kids- which means he is probably expecting a normal looking bum 
he keeps telling me how great my body is and he can't wait to see me naked etc but I feel like as soon as I take my pants off he's going to be hugely turned off and run away.
So aibu to think this can't be it, I can't have a hideous bum hole for the next fifty years? Is there really nothing that can be done to improve the appearance and has anyone ever been in this situation? I appreciate that piles are fairly common especially after child birth and If I was married then the appearance probably wouldn't bother me as compared to the google pictures it is pretty inoffensive.