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to think my friend has joined a cult?

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PumpkinPieInTheSky · 15/10/2014 09:10

Known my friend for years, she is lovely. Funny, clever, friendly, raises loads of money for charity etc. One day she got her eye lashes done as a one off for a party and got chatting to the lady who was doing them. This lady persuaded her to buy a product from her - I remember my friend saying at the time that it was a hard sell and she didn't want to buy it.

She did buy it though and she is now hooked and now sells it too. She thinks others need to be persuaded as hard as she did to buy it. She genuinely believes she is providing a really helpful service and has stopped all her usual charity fundraising and all time is spent on "helping people change their lives" - ie sell them this product too.

On FB of anyone questions it she shouts them down and copies and pastes paragraph upon paragraph of "research" on it and then blocks the person.

She is being tagged in all sorts of posts about it now after some kind of huge meet up at the weekend, examples -

"So totally mind blowing experience over the past 4 days with amazing people. Abso loved every min of it guys thanks so much. Can't even put into words how i feel right now. The emotions, the ambitions, where this company is going. The scientific research is flawless... the peer study reviews OMG this is just the start... & where we not only as a company but where we as a team are going... this is ready for take off..."

"This was by far the most amazing experience ever, and to think this is work is just insane. Love the products, love the business, love the people and the positivity surrounding everything we are doing. "

"I'm sooo motivated to take my business to the next level and I want you all to join me!!! I want to make your life better, your family and friends life better. I promise... I can do this for you, all you need to do is PM me and give me a chance to prove it.
Life is too short to wait!
I don't want you looking back in a years time thinking "I wish I took a chance" own your own life starting today. I guarantee it'll be the best thing you've ever done ??
Come to this event tomorrow night (Details in the poster below) I will sort transport for you. An hour is all I ask, it will change your life. You've got absolutely nothing to lose but everything to gain XxX"

What has happened to my lovely friend? It is all she talks about now :( I miss her. Any problem you have she has an answer...her product! Some friends have bought it to shut her up but she doesn't even stop then - she wants you to buy more and more and then start selling.

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SeasonalVag · 26/10/2016 15:48

Christ, maQueen, that's a sobering tale. Is she not aware?

RaspberryOverloadTheFirst · 26/10/2016 16:00

I follow the MN botwatch threads, and I also follow the Timeless Vie FB page. Theya re very informative.

The sheer crap and misinformation these MLM organisations get their recruits to post is worrying because a lot of people wouldn't know the truth about these groups.

MaQueen · 26/10/2016 16:00

We've lost touch now (after I declined to be recruited) so not sure where her head is at?

But judging by her myriad FB posts everything is amazing and fantastic, and her 'new best friends' are amazing and fantastic...

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 26/10/2016 16:09

Laguna, I've just caught up - and spotted that it's a ZOMBIE THREAD. Blush

OP's friend has either become a millionaire or retired or seen sense by now, I expect.

The80sweregreat · 26/10/2016 16:17

At least you can block someone or just scoll past if its all over the internet, years ago a few friends had parties - not just Tupperware, but cotton goods like table cloths, jewellery, make up, am way products, childrens books. it was hard sell and difficult, if you knew the person you felt obliged to buy something, then they would go on about you having a party too ( I had a tiny house so I used that as an excuse not to get involved) had to buy something then just try to ignore any more invites! It drops off when the person finds out it wont make them mega rich and is actually a pita. I just smile and say no these days - not taken in by anything that looks too good to be true.

RortyCrankle · 26/10/2016 16:40

Ah shame, she's morphed into an MLM bot. If you want to know more read the MLM bot watch thread on the Money Matters Board - they are up to thread no 26.

WannaBe · 26/10/2016 16:59

Well, I think I have obviously achieved something where all of you have failed . Grin.

I have managed to get myself blocked on FB by not one, but two juice plus sellers, firstly for suggesting that the claims of increased health for heart disease/cancer/numerous other health conditions were fake claims and could not be backed up by any doctor, and as such anyone selling those products would be personally culpable if someone took those claims on board and decided to e.g. Stop taking their medication, and B, for suggesting to someone else that her juice plus capsules were nothing but over-priced multi vitamin tablets. Grin.

I have subsequently been diagnosed with a serious health condition and am quite sorry that I no longer have anyone to argue with given that their over-priced shite most likely is contra-indicated with some of my medications.

Babblehag · 28/10/2016 15:51

As I remember there were some templates to post on your page that were company compliant, you had a choice of around 10, and if you posted anything that wasn't compliant, you would get a barrage of messages "thats not compliant hun" from your fl buddies/uplines.
Cant remember why it wasn't compliant but there were rules.

LadyConstanceDeCoverlet · 28/10/2016 18:05

WannaBe, they would probably claim that your illness was due to your failure to fill yourself up with JuicePlus crap.

natwebb79 · 28/10/2016 18:21

I've had to hode a friend from my Facebook feed for this. Started off with FL and now some 'slimming wraps'. Lots of cringe worthy before and after photos of her looking exactly the same despite about £300 worth of shite having been wrapped around her. Apparently I should do it otherwise I'm purposely missing out on my child's life. It's broken her marriage up.

VoldysGoneMouldy · 28/10/2016 20:29

I know this is a zombie thread, but seem at just the right moment as if I see one more fucking person on facebook going on about Younique or Jamberry bloody nail things, my head might explode.

They're all fucking cults.

AgathaMystery · 28/10/2016 20:46

Like yank said... just wait until LuLaRoe leggings hit the UK. There are literally no words Shock

My fave is the shirts... 'wear 12 ways!' A few points:
1 'backwards' is not a 'way'
2 nor is off the left shoulder any different to off the right shoulder
3 a belt is not a new way
4 or a necklace

Hmm
MyCatsHateMLMtoo · 30/10/2016 10:46

Agatha, I've done a bit of digging into this company. The founder states on the home page of the website that she was a single mother of seven who decided to set up the business with her husband. Further research confirms that she is connected to the Mormon church (home of MLM companies). There is very little information on their website, you are expected to send your name and email for more information.

I found a fair review of the company here where there is also a link to the Compensation Plan of the company.

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