Hello! Me and my hubby are having trouble! For a while we use to fight all the time when I finished uni and was looking for work then we had a massive burst up and his mum got involved and we made up and didn't fight again for ages until recently we keep fighting and nick picking at each other and this morning it just blew up. His mum mediated and made it better because she knows what he is like she took my side. He just makes me mad cause I'm still waiting for my DBS to come through before I can start work, I'm still at home and he just treats me like a maid I'm sick of him telling me what to do and when I've done it complaining I haven't done it right I'm sick of him putting me down all the time and just treating me like the bloody house maid and as if I am stupid. I've told him millions of times how I feel and he just say I have n pride in myself or my belongings and then he comes out with things like it’s his house I have to earn my keep whilst I'm no helping with money! He doesn't treat me like a girlfriend more like a lodger. I get up with him at 6 to make his breakfast for him whilst he gets ready for work. I turned the tap on and it got water all over the top and I knew he’d go mad so I wiped it up and most of missed some cause when he went down I heard him go “oh for f**k sake” then shout up have you turned the tap on today and I knew he'd go mad so I said no so he walks up stairs and goes that needs cleaning up Natasha I thought what you stood there saw it would have taken a second to do instead you order me to do it so I told him where to go cause I was already mad at him cause we'd have a mini fall out before that so he says to me clean it up or don’t even think about using the tooth paste cause I bought it can you believe it then he wanted to take my phone and laptop to pay him back. He also told me to go and die and hopes I get murdered just before he left and that if I was still here when he got back he'd ring the police. I am scared of upsetting him or making him mad not because he'll hit me or physically hurt me but he'll make me feel small. Am I being really petty?