Tintergate - I'm genuinely interested to know, why won't your DH install Ikea kitchens? Is there something that we should be aware of?
The last place I live had an Ikea kitchen and I loved it. Countertops held up very well, no scratches etc... and the cabinets looked like new (the place was 6 years old). They were the glass fronted cabinets which looked really IMO.