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Dating/sex apps have "accidently" appeared on itunes account. AIBU to think DP is a liar?

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Phylrabbit · 01/10/2014 14:37

A week ago a sex app appeared on the ipad. The only people in the house that know the password are me and DP. DP says he didn't download it. However - upon realising that there is NO OTHER BLOODY WAY IT COULD HAVE APPEARED ON THERE he changed this to "couldn't remember" downloading it. After realising that people don't "forget downloaded sex/dating apps" he changed this to "must have been accidently downloaded - clicked on whilst using another site.

(lets just forget for a moment that you still need the ffing password!)

Since investigating the itunes account I have discovered other dating apps which have been downloaded yet deleted from all apple devices in the house (2 phones and the ipad). DP denies any knowledge of them. However it turns out they were downloaded via the phone and not the ipad meaning even less chance of someone else doing in (on the ipad which the kids sometimes use).

So - the closest we have got to an admission of guilt is "I may have accidently clicked on it whilst using a porn site".

He has previous form for using sex/chat/dating sites from a few years back which I forgave but did not forget.

He thinks I'm being unreasonable to distrust him.

Do we all smell a professor of bullshit here or am I a mistrusting bitch of a woman?

Please do not out me, refer to other threads or link me if you recognise this - I'm hoping he reads it. Thanks.

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borisgudanov · 03/10/2014 22:14

He's a cheating bastard, full of shite and spouting complete bollocks which he thinks you're gullible enough to believe. His stories are completely implausible and he keeps changing them as if he thinks he might hit on one you're stupid enough to believe.

Point him at the door, open it, then kick his arse until he is out in the street. Surround him with bin bags full of his stuff, thdn lock the door behind him.

Arsehole.

youareallbonkers · 06/10/2014 13:43

Why are you with someone you don't trust? Either forgive and FORGET or move on.

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