DH has a rugby season ticket. Tonight is the last game before the play-offs. I don't begrudge him going - I like him to enjoy himself. However...
We have two DSs - 2.3yo and 5 weeks who is EBF. I could be being naff about this but I seriously have no idea how I could get them both to bed by myself as DS2 cluster feeds on and off from about 5pm until 8pm. Current routine - both boys go into the bath at 7pm. DH watches them while I chuck on pyjamas and brush my teeth. I get DS2 into his sleepsuit then into our darkened bedroom for more feeding then into his co-sleeper cot until we both fall asleep. If I don't stay with him while he falls asleep he wails. He can take quite a while of drifting in and out of sleep before he stays that way - around half an hour sometimes. While I do this, DH gets DS1 into his pyjamas, reads to him for 20-30 minutes in his room, then puts him to bed.
We don't have anyone to help in place of DH. DH does work away from time to time so the time will come when I'll have to get both boys to bed solo, but I'm just not keen to do it any earlier than I have to. DH will be understanding, if a bit grumpy, if I say he can't go to the game tonight.
AIBU to tell him not to go? Is there a magical way I haven't thought of to get a toddler and a newborn to bed at the same time??