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AIBU?

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AIBU to hang lacy underwear on the washing line of our overlooked garden?

55 replies

Catzeyess · 19/08/2014 13:07

Lighthearted

A friend of mine was shocked I hang my lacy undies/bras on the line to dry in our garden because the neighbours might see..

I think it is perfectly normal and reasonable to hang underwear on the line and that no-one looks/cares what washing people hang out?

AIBU?

OP posts:
jacks365 · 19/08/2014 13:39

Your friend would hate me. The garden is at the front of the house and lots of lacey underwear on the line. To really get her judging it's a main road and bus route.

kittykarate · 19/08/2014 14:29

One of my friends is really funny about drying her underwear on the the line. I was like " Well at least my neighbours know I wear some - they must think you don't" Grin

MrsJossNaylor · 19/08/2014 14:43

Rrally

MrsJossNaylor · 19/08/2014 14:46

Oops! I really don't get why you wouldn't, tbh. Presumably the neighbours guess that you wear underwear. I hang everything out, has never occurred to me not to. I'm not ashamed of pants...

Icelollycraving · 19/08/2014 14:50

I wear big lacy pants. I have taken to kind of folding them before pegging so they don't look so vast. They go in the middle of the line with bits shielding them. I happily peg up dh & ds pants though as that's different.

BreadForBrains · 19/08/2014 14:51

I don't hang my underwear on the line because as a teen my underwear was regularly stolen from the line. Grim.
I'm really paranoid about it now, so just hang mine indoors. Silly really as I now have a secure garden (though overlooked from the back).
Dp has on occasion, hung out the washing including my underwear and I've raced out and hastily snatched it all back in again like a loon! Grin

DownstairsMixUp · 19/08/2014 14:53

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Catzeyess · 19/08/2014 15:04

Bread someone stole your underwear [shocked]

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Merel · 19/08/2014 15:04

There was a spate of knicker theft round at my aunt's street many years ago. The culprit was finally found a his bounty recovered. My aunt was invited to rummage through a bin bag full of stolen knickers to retrieve her own. She declined!

Catzeyess · 19/08/2014 15:05

Shock that's soo creepy!

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PinkSparklyElephant · 19/08/2014 15:05

Mine always goes on the line, lacy or not!

I don't know what my size 6 neighbour must think when she sees my parachute sized (although very pretty!) bras!

jellybelly701 · 19/08/2014 15:47

I dread to think what your friend would think about my washing line at the moment. Not only does it have a lacy babydoll on it but it has a variety of tiny thongs and absolutely huge knickers too. My garden can be seen by at least 8 houses.

LetsFaceTheMusicAndDance · 19/08/2014 15:55

I wouldn't hang out peephole bras and crotchless knickers with their gusset-free area akimbo in case it provoked interesting questions from next dorr's little kids.

Otherwise - fine.

fluffyraggies · 19/08/2014 15:56

It all goes on the line here - lacy drawers, lace bras, sexy lingerie, stockings, the lot. What's to be embarrassed about? It's clean. You've cleaned it. It should be clean!

I don't understand the reason behind anyone who has a problem.

QuinionsRainbow · 19/08/2014 15:57

YANBU. Isn't drying 'smalls' what the clothes line was invented for?

Kablooger · 19/08/2014 16:05

hang them out wiht PRIDE!

KellyElly · 19/08/2014 16:43

It's fine, it's just undies, it's not like it's bondage gear or anything like that!

WitchWay · 19/08/2014 16:47

I hang my bondage gear knickers out Grin

LRDtheFeministDragon · 19/08/2014 16:54

I hang mine out.

Back in the day, I lived somewhere where we all backed onto a shared court with washing lines, which was lovely, but I could never stop my elderly neighbour from dashing out at the least spot of rain and/or the moment things were dry, and presenting me with a neat pile of folded washing, knickers uppermost. Blush

I gave up hanging my knickers up out there, I tell you!

Katinkka · 19/08/2014 16:58

I also put mine on the inside of my 'Whirly'. Mine are massive full briefs. I know one of my neighbour watches me from his Bob Dylan Shrine upstairs bedroom.

Bouttimeforwine · 19/08/2014 17:25

My armpit huggers never see beyond the tumble dryer.

BreadForBrains · 19/08/2014 22:44

Yes Catz, my underwear was stolen! On quite a few occasions. My mum phoned the police eventually Confused
I honestly felt violated and grubby. I still refuse to hang my smalls out 14 years later!

Janethegirl · 19/08/2014 23:04

Underwear never goes on the line. I dry it inside, both mine and DH generally by means of tumble dryer (not bras obviously).

LikeTheShoes · 20/08/2014 10:42

when I was a student (and did laundry very infrequently) I did a wash of all of my underwear (except the ones I was wearing) and it was ALL stolen off the line! they weren't expensive or nice ones either, just cheapy primark ones; it was really embarrassing and awkward as I had to go out and buy more commando! My housemates called the police but we never got invited to rummage through a binbag of pants so I guess they were never found.
They did return all the pegs to the peg bag though.

Thebodyloveschocolateandwine · 20/08/2014 10:45

No see I might just buy really tiny Lacey things to hand up just to make the neighbours think I am tiny but dry my real pants on another private line. Grin