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...to not find this funny?

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Mindyourownb · 13/08/2014 16:29

Long time lurker! Been meaning to write this for a couple of weeks now.

I am pregnant with my first baby, a girl, due in December.

I work directly opposite my manager in a small office (other colleagues all in a large, open-plan space directly outside our office. Starting to get incredibly hacked off with manager constantly making remarks about how squeamish she is about my pregnancy ("eww can see your stomach move" "hummus, eww, is that a craving?" etc etc). I have been experiencing really bad sickness and she is apparently severely phobic of sickness and will constantly say "eww the thought of throwing up makes me ill"..I go to great lengths to vomit in secret, armed with toothbrush etc out of respect but I really do not need to hear these constant comments.

She notices EVERYTHING, it's bizarre, nothing more repulsive than someone with whom you are not close commenting on how big my boobs are. Just generally don't want to hear every 5 minutes how repulsive she finds pregnancy when I am quite a private person and always endeavour not to bore people with accounts of personal things.

It is just exhausting. Is this something you have to just take on the chin though?? The constant negativity is killing me!!!

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OnlyLovers · 14/08/2014 12:41

kali, absolutely. Whatever the reasons, it's no way for a colleague to behave and it's even more jaw-dropping now we know she's a fecking HR person!

EmberElftree · 14/08/2014 13:47

Congrats on your pregnancy & good for you Mindy for confronting her.

Shame on her (HR manager???)…some of the HR managers I've worked with have been shockers.

In my company the HR manager reports to the CEO but it's a big company - she must have a boss?

If she doesn't refrain after you have confronted her I would start making a note as a pp said and then book a meeting to nip this behaviour in the bud.

You should be enjoying your pregnancy not fielding inane comments from a crazy bitch unprofessional colleague.

I expect she says it when she has an audience? Perhaps another of your colleagues will support you if it goes as far as a meeting with the boss?

CrapBag · 14/08/2014 13:55

Bigby are you talking about my SIL? Grin

OP, YANBU. I think she sounds jealous. Too much protesting perhaps? Glad you have finally said something to her. Its not funny at all. I hate when people act like twats then just say they are being funny when actually they are just being twatish.

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