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Feel like a crank-Vegas stag do...

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Loveallmyboys · 07/08/2014 11:01

So, OH wants to go on a stag do to Vegas in June. Deposit of £200 is due ASAP and the total cost is about £900 for 3 or 4 nights there. Add to this spends and inevitable clothing etc, we're talking maybe £2000.
In June, DS2 will be about 6-7 months. We just sold our car and are looking for a bigger one now. He's only willing to spend £1500 on one-surely a newer, more reliable car is more important than p*ssing £2k up a wall in Vegas?? We just sold our car for £6k so most of that will be gone! He doesn't want to spend money on the house we currently live in as we're renting(won't even buy paint or curtains for the 3 kids bedrooms as it's expensive?!) me and the kids didn't get a holiday in September, as promised, because he went to Spain on another stag do...
He is the sole bread-winner, I am a SAHM so we are a one-wage family. Surely this amount of money could and should be better spent?! Ugh

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SuchSweetSorrow · 07/08/2014 21:30

He sounds utterly horrendous. Seriously, you and your children are worth more than this selfish tosser.

Also, please don't allow any person to treat your eldest son like that. If he can't be a good dad to all your children he doesn't have the right to be there at all.

SuchSweetSorrow · 07/08/2014 21:31

and actually he clearly isn't a good dad to any of them, biological or not!

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