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To think my bil needs to grow a pair and tell his wife to pipe down

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Thefishewife · 03/08/2014 19:38

For the seconed year in a row he failed to go out on his birthday because he says it's not. Worth the hassle she is very condoling never wanting him to go out with his brothers or his friends

One brothers married to me and the other brother is hardly a lad he's like one of those hippes that attends those protest fracking type things

He's never allowed out she either cries or try's to go why would you want to be the only women out with 7 guys down the pub *she on the other hand is out most weekends with her mates leaves him with the kids she always shouting at him about house work he's not actually lazy she should try my husband if she wants lazy my oh once rang to ask him down the pub she actually rang my husband back and told him xxxxxx is not coming out today as if he's ten wtf

Anyone every gets married he's not aloud to go for fear of a strip club though I feel this is used as a smoke screen

And I have been told after my dh stag do he was questioned by her for two hours on arrival home

(I still don't know what they got up to bar a crypt voicemail saying oh sit we have lost mark then a voice in the background saying no you rang the wrong phone but I don't care what they got up to)

My bil is really lovely and I wish he would grow a pair and tell her to pipe down and that he's going for a swif half with his brothers

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wafflyversatile · 04/08/2014 17:54

I suspect a major fear you will have to allay if he does want to leave is that the mum always gets the kids. Best advice I can give when leaving (or throwing out) an abusive partner is keep the kids with you from the off. Let them apply to see them. If she is abusive with him now she will doubtless use the kids to control him if he leaves, by withholding access or demanding he come round using the kids as reason. For the children's sake it is best not to leave them with her.

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