I am '52 vintage, so not strictly baby-boomer. And yes, I had a grant, and yes, DW and I could afford to buy a home - the same modest home we have 35 years on - when we got married. And yes, I am public sector and will retire to a modest but index-linked pension.
But I did not vote for the abolition of the grant. I am not responsible for what has happened to house-prices. I am not an actuary, I did not know what was going to happen to longevity, not that I will necessarily live long. I just signed on the dotted line and paid my pension contributions and my mortgage - which was at 11.25% when it stated and reached 15% at one time, so I have a jaundiced view of the return I am now getting on my hard-earned savings. And No, I don't feel guilty that I have that pension to come and my home paid for. I've worked for both.
And I have lived in London since I was 13; paid fares, rates, poll-tax, council-tax, for previous generations of sixty-plussers to have free travel, working or not and without means test, and it's my turn now and I am not ashamed of it.
Get off my back, OP, I feel no guilt whatever!