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AIBU to eat in front of my muslim coworkers?

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EmmbadTheBad · 27/07/2014 21:02

So it's Ramadan at the moment. I was at a meeting at work recently and a muslim woman, who I don't work with directly, made a comment about how thoughtless the people she shares an office with are for eating in front of her while she is fasting (at this point everyone glances guiltily towards the biscuits in the middle of the table). There are a couple of muslim women in my office and, I'll be honest, it had not even occurred to me that it might be insensitive to eat in front of them while they are fasting.

We do have a kitchen at work but it's very small and a lot of people, myself included, tend to eat at their desks. Quite apart from anything - as an atheist - I don't want to be observing other people's religious beliefs. I know Ramadan is nearly over but I intend to continue eating at my desk. IABU? Would appreciate opinion from anyone fasting at the mo.

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Iona226 · 30/07/2014 07:49

2013Mother2013 reported

This thread really needs to be deleted

NewtRipley · 30/07/2014 07:53

I think the OP got her wish

Deverethemuzzler · 30/07/2014 08:07

Oh Mother dear, have you not read your Bible?

MyFairyKing · 30/07/2014 08:08

Cote why? For me, it's about the food thing, not the religious aspect. I wouldn't eat a steak when I go out with 3 of my girlfriends who are veggie. I guess to avoid me feeling different? Something to ponder on I suppose.

MyFairyKing · 30/07/2014 08:09

Anyway, I agree this thread is fucking grim and I don't understand why MN are letting it stand. There is very little debate on here, just people responding to the goady fuckers.

melika · 30/07/2014 08:19

OP shouldn't feel under any pressure not to eat, it is their religion, not hers. Surely, that person could go for a walk in her breaks instead of watching.

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