I am still friends with a group of women that I met at baby group when my youngest child was little.
We are all still friends and all still have regular nights out. One member of the group is quite dominant, very vocal, and somewhat of a boaster. Lots of the others seem to hang on her every word and be in awe of the clothes she is wearing or the holiday she is going on. Recently her husband got a new car and lots of them listened open mouthed and in awe as she told a long story about how he got her the wrong colour, and how she'd moaned at him until he changed it.
I am not a boaster. I am fairly quiet and generally happy to listen to the louder group members, although of course I do speak too when we're out!
We all went out for a meal last night, and during the meal I mentioned that we have booked a holiday for next month. It wasn't in a bragging sense but just an update on me type of sense. I talked about it for about 2 minutes and then we moved on to another topic.
This morning I have received a facebook message from one of the other women (not the boaster) saying that she is just giving me some friendly advice but that she is advising me not to mention my holiday again as it's unfair on other group members that cannot afford a holiday this year, and she thinks I may have upset one or two others by talking about it.
I have not replied to the message yet but to be honest I am absolutely gobsmacked by it, not to mention very pissed off. Basically she is saying that it is ok for some people to boast all the time, but that the rest of us should just sit there and listen to it all and never update with any news of our own. I also feel cross that the one or two others that I have apparently upset haven't got the balls to message me themselves to say it!
AIBU to be totally pissed off and to be considering not meeting up with these women again?
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To be annoyed by this and think it is unfair?
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cheeseandfickle · 26/07/2014 14:04
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