To go and beat the little bastard around the head!?

[CalamityClara]

DD is 15. Thankfully we are very close and she talks to me about things. A few months ago it became apparent she had a boyfriend. Teenage emotions being what they are, she was smitten and 'loved him'.

The little shit has dumped her over the weekend. She has been inconsolable. He dumped her because he wanted to go further than just kissing and she didn't want to.

I know this is all normal. I know she'll get over it and has probably learnt a valuable lesson about some boys, but my heart is breaking for her. My baby girl, my PFB, is so hurt and this is the first time in her life I can't make it better :(

I seriously want to go and kill this boy!!!

Oh poor DD...All posters who say girly night etc...been there done that.(and it helped) My DD is now 21 and past all that but please allow me to add our stories....1st one is very similar to yours OP except when she said no and they split he told everyone that they had DTD(much more graphic than that) but that she was crap and that is why they split...My DD was mortified...only 14. My DH certainly wanted to kill him...but fast forward a few years and he has a terrible reputation (small village) and my DD doesn't care now.
2nd story....bedtime and I found DD crying (nearly hysterical, choking) as just had text from BF....finished with her...que lots of talk, cuddles, plenty more fish in sea, more cuddles...eventually sobbing subsides....went into DSs room (11 years) He lay in bed, covers up to face....talked about why Sis upset...I asked him if he'd learnt anything about this...he said 'Never dump a girl by text!'
It is horrible and I don't think YABU to feel like this....but it will pass. DD now has a lovely BF and as far as I know, DS hasn't dumped any girl....
Tonight, have girly night with DD and read out all the lovely messages to her?

Glad she had a good day. I think lots of people have similar stories. mine was similar to Mumof2girls. I said no, and he went on to get the next girl pregnant! Soooooooo glad that wasn't me. Life would have been very different (just clicked i would have a 26 year old child in that scenario - gosh i am old :) )

I am mentally cheering for Clara's daughter what an amazing girl

I do despair that somewhere along the way we give teenage boys the impression that sex is something they are entitled to have and that you can achieve this through any means necessary.

Oh what a fantastic DD you have! Well done to her. I am so pleased she stood up for herself. It is his loss entirely.

Ten years ago I was your DD. I lost two boyfriends who I 'loved oh so much' becuase I wasn't ready for sexual stuff. But it did me a favour, I ended up finding DP when i was 18. He is the best thing that ever happened to me and he was happy to wait till I was ready. He waited two years for me! We're getting married in a few months. I know your DDs hurting, but she'll feel be so proud of herself when she looks back at this.