Need a bit of perspective on this. In a baby music class, random mum has loudly commented twice, on separate occasions that my baby is small. Always said quite sneerily, 'ooh he's really small, isn't he'?
First time she said it, I was a bit taken aback. Literally never spoken to this woman before and that's the first thing she said.
This week we were chatting and she made comments again 'oh he's such a small baby, what does he weigh?' I told her I didn't know, he was weighed 2 weeks ago blah blah.
For what it's worth, he's not a huge baby but not tiny, would say he's fairly average and a good weight. DD was similar size at that age. Wouldn't mind but this woman's baby is the same age and smaller!
Would I BU to tell her she is fucking rude and if she wants to make conversation with a stranger there are nicer things she could say?