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To be crapping myself about whose baby this is?

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stateoftheart · 23/06/2014 17:57

I cant believe this has happened to me!!

Period is 7 days late now. Tested Weds, negative. Tested today, very faint positive.

I have the copper coil in, i've checked and its still in place. I have no symptoms at all.

I have been seeing someone, we regularly have sex. But 8 days ago I had unprotected sex with someone else. Just the once. Given how faint the test is could it be his? But my periods was already nearly due then anyway.

About 14 days ago I had what I though was mid cycle bleed, this could have been implantation bleed??

But the test is so faint.

Oh god my head is everywhere.

Can anyone link to any conclusive evidence of whether there is a possibility. I have looked everywhere.

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x2boys · 24/06/2014 00:28

I agree with greythorne and young British piss artist do you want to be a mother ? If yes than you can worry about paternity later if not then its largely irrelavent good luck with your decision .

ILoveCoreyHaim · 24/06/2014 00:29

My DO fell pg with DB2 on the pill so had the coil fitted then fell pg with DB with It in. Her strings vanished. This was in the early 90s

ILoveCoreyHaim · 24/06/2014 00:31

Try again bloody autocorrect

My DM fell pg with DB2 on the pill so had the coil fitted then fell pg with DB3 with it in. Her strings vanished. This was in the early 90s

ILoveCoreyHaim · 24/06/2014 00:34

Get a £1 test from savers. They showed up for me before i was even due on. Just them dip strips in the packet.

ILoveCoreyHaim · 24/06/2014 00:36

Never mind just seen clear blue positive

Morloth · 24/06/2014 02:58

No judgment because there is nothing to judge.

Coil/ectopic is main thing and if you are having sex with more than one partner you really need to use a barrier contraception. Because they could be as well and so on...

Pregnancy isn't the worst thing you can catch.

Cardinal · 24/06/2014 03:14

Best of luck OP Thanks

Happydaysatlast · 24/06/2014 04:23

Op forget the father issue and concentrate on getting yourself to a doctor and making decisions on whether or not you wish to be a mother.

That's the first thing.

Chunderella · 24/06/2014 08:33

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Showy · 24/06/2014 11:44

You can conceive when your period is due, if you haven't ovulated yet. There's a thread on here at least weekly with a woman experiencing a very late period when she's usually regular as clockwork. Sometimes ovulation is delayed by stress or illness or occasionally for no discernible reason. The fact remains that the op does not know when she ovulated and for whatever reason, it's entirely plausible she ovulated recently.

This is not the pressing matter though. Seeing a gp asap and deciding what is right for her must take priority.

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