OK read through the thread and I'm weeping now.
Others I've thought of:
Singing the lines from the christmas carol:
"and man at war with man hears not
the love song that they bring
oh hush your noise, you men of strife
and hear the angels sing"
At the end of Les Miserables when Valjean dies "and remember the truth that
one was spoken, to love another person is to see the face of God....
Do you hear the people sing
lost in the valley of the night
it is the music of a people who are striving for the light
For the wretched of the earth there is a flame that never dies
even the darkest night will end and the sun will rise
They will live again in freedom in the garden of the Lord
They will wak behind the ploughshare they will put away the sword..."
I'm just in floods of tears by that point...
Reading "Paper Dolls" by Julia Donaldson
The "Last Post" Bugle call. Obviously can be used in non-funeral contexts but I'm hearing it at funerals more often than not these days.
I was in such floods of tears at the end of seeing War Horse on stage at the National Theatre that I have refused to see the film version in case it isnt as good. I would hate to tarnish the memory with a second-rate imitation.
Thankyou headinhands for the youtube link at 19:53