AIBU to make 12 year old DS (year 7) go to bed at 9 in the week? Quick straw poll....

[Kbear]

AIBU/YANBU please

should it be later? am I truly and evil witch? (my words not his lol, well not out loud anyway).

My boy is 12 in year 7. He goes to bed between 8-30 & 9 pm in the week. Have said that when he can get up himself for school he can go later :)

The boarders at the local prep yr7 have lights out 9.15. It goes up by 15 minutes every year.

My DD is year 7 and 9pm is her bedtime.

I think that was my bedtime at that age.

Ds is 13 and goes up between 8.30-9 and reads for ages as it takes him a long time to switch off.

My Yr7 is in bed and lights out by 9, he's up at 6 (for some unknown reason.....), my year 4 is still in bed at 7.30 but allowed to read till 8 (as he's constantly tired).

lannister how did you stop your Dc's wifi access at a certain time? I assume this hasn't affected anyone else ie you can still use the internet?