Dh has three days off per week, which are usually weekdays. He has nothing he wants to do with the days off and tends to follow me around like a lost puppy, it's driving me crazy.
For example: he'll stay in bed until 8.20 when we're leaving at 8.30. He'll then run around rushing to come on the school run. He likes to go a different way to me, which often makes us late. He's never had breakfast beforehand so we can't take our 2yo to the park straight after school or anything because he wants to go home for breakfast.
If it's a day I take dd to toddler group he'll want to come too, but just sits there on his phone rather than play. When dd naps (and I usually work from home) he wants me to sit cuddling on the sofa, or even go back to bed. If I'm taking dd to soft play or swimming in the afternoon, he will want to come too but again - just follow us around or sit and watch. If we're at home he will follow us from room to room and every time I stand or sit still he'll start cuddling or kissing me and I feel totally claustrophobic.
I'd love to have the days he works as days just with the kids then do housework/normal work/have some time to myself on his days off while he spends some time with the kids, but he wants to spend all of them all together. Aibu to find this suffocating?