Perhaps it would clarify the situation further if I said that the accuser is my xp, the father of my child, who I have to communicate with to facilitate contact or issues surrounding contact and issues surrounding my child.
If it was up to me, I would never contact him or return his calls, and I only contact him when I absolutely have to because he is a narcissistic spiteful bully who makes an argument out of the most mundane things, and calls the police at the slightest issue to punish me for not doing things the way he wants them done.
He has been very upset lately after I began a new relationship, despite being in a relationship himself. That is when he refused contact or maintenance again, and contact by any means has now dried up again.
The texts and calls were to ask him if he would be picking my child up, to inform him of a meeting at school which I had been asked to inform him about and the results of an assessment my child had.
His response was required so when he didn't respond, I sent him '??' and when he didn't respond to that, I telephoned him that evening to ask him if he had received my texts, at which point he screamed down the phone but did not answer the question.
The school then tried to ring him, and could not leave a voicemail, so tried a few times and he has not made a statement to say that I have incited the school to ring him as part of my harrassment towards him.
There has been no contact for a month because I cannot get a reply from him, so saw no point in continuing trying to contact him to attempt to get some form of response.
According to the police, unwanted contact is classed as harrassment, and in his statement, he has stipulated that he did not want anyone to contact him to ask his response or inform him of these issues at that time, because he was busy with other things. He has stated that he is quite happy to be contacted when it is more convenient, but does not know when that will be.
In the meantime, I am under investigation for harrassment and inciting others (the school) to harrass him too.
I have asked the school to remove his number from their system, but they say they cannot do this because he has PR.