Argh, getting close to summer holidays so we are overwhelmed with birthday invites. DD2 has been invited to a birthday party one Sunday in June, she's delighted, we accepted.
Today we received an invite from her best friend, to her 5th birthday party, exactly the same time, different location. I know dd2 will prefer to go to her best friend's party, do you think it's OK to change our RSVP to the first party? The mum is nice but quite proper, don't want to upset anyone....
To complicate things further, dd1 is best friends with the first party birthday girl's sister. She's been invited to birthday 1 as well. Would it be OK to send dd1 to party 1 and dd2 to party 2?
Bloody hate birthday party politics.....