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To want "my" wedding ring?

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kirsten123 · 25/05/2014 19:58

Hi all,

Ex-fiancé and I get engaged over a year ago at which time he bought my engagement ring and the matching wedding band (and a band for himself). Entirely out of his own money. We split up last month when he said he didn't actually want to get married to anyone. Ever. (Threads about this in relationship forum). This was despite him allowing me moving from Scotland to be with him. (He's a narcissist).

He let me keep the engagement ring (on the basis I don't sell it) and I still wear it on the other hand (partly as I don't want to leave it in my new place as don't trust new roommates yet!)

Question is - am I being unreasonable to ask for the wedding band too? I don't want to sell it, I just want it/don't want anyone else to have it/good reminder of my lucky escape!

He is pretty well off and can easily afford to give me it but seemed to suggest I was being cheeky when I asked. I told him to think about it. The engagement ring is worth much more anyway.

Thanks in advance.

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ThatBloodyWoman · 26/05/2014 12:02

Look just keep the engagement ring and sell it to help you finance having to move out.

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