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AIBU to be concerned about DS1?

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Rinoachicken · 22/05/2014 08:48

Hi all

I'm looking for a bit of perspective here as to wether I'm being over anxious over nothing, or not.

Ok here's what's been happening (DS1 is 4.5yo)

  • His weight is dropping. He has always been slim but since Feb we have been concerned he has lost a lot of weight. I've no idea what he weighed before this time, but I weighed him in March and he weighed 14.5kg (and was 103cm tall). To DH and I he seemed pale, dark rings round his eyes etc. We spoke to preschool and they did us a food diary of what he eats there for a while, which seemed fine, and we put him back on whole milk. He put on 1kg in a month and I was pleased things seemed to be moving in the right direction. But now a month later and he's back down at 14.7kg. All his trousers are on the tightest setting and still seem to be in danger of falling down all the time. There's nothing to him when you hug him. He can be fussy over food but I'd say he eats as well as most other kids his age and has a balanced diet of fresh fruit, veg, etc. drinks and toilet all normal. He always was between 25th and 50th centile for his weight/age. Now he's on 1st/2nd
  • tiredness. He sleeps 10-12hrs solidly a night but will still seem tired all day, lying on the floor or sofa etc. We bought him a new better mattress in case his old one was uncomfortable, it has improved the quality of his sleep but not resolved the tiredness.
  • over the last couple of weeks he's had maybe 4 small nosebleeds, one during the night.

MIL thinks I'm overreacting, because 'kids are meant to be thin, better than all these fat kids you see around these days' Hmm

So what do you think? WIBU to take him to the GP?

Sorry it's so long, didn't want to drip! Thanks for reading this far

OP posts:
MostlyMama · 22/05/2014 17:03

Hope all has gone well at hosp today thinking of you xx

SugarMiceInTheRain · 22/05/2014 17:08

Good luck, hope all tests are clear and they can reassure you or give the appropriate treatment.

Rinoachicken · 22/05/2014 18:17

Hi all. Firstly thank you all so much for your messages of support xxx

He had his bloods done (was VERY brave!). Drs were all brilliant and very thorough. They will call us if there is anything in the bloods and he has an appointment to go back in a month. They said he looks to be well but agreed that he is a bit skinny.

I'm do glad I took him to the GP. If it turns out he's just a scrawny tall lad then that's fine by me, at least I'll know he's ok.

OP posts:
gatofeliz · 22/05/2014 18:31

Thats great news Rino. Fingers crossed he's just a skinny lad!

DinoSnores · 22/05/2014 18:44

Great news! Good that they've taken things seriously but hope it does turn out to be nothing! Flowers

Flexibilityiskey · 22/05/2014 19:37

Glad to see he's been thoroughly checked out. Fingers crossed it is just one of those things that happens with children, and all is OK!

gotnotimeforthat · 22/05/2014 19:44

That's brilliant news rino and a big well done to ds for being so brave too!!

emms1981 · 23/05/2014 12:17

Please keep us updated, hope he's OK x

notfromstepford · 23/05/2014 12:18

That's good news that they've been so thorough - fingers crossed he's all OK and just a skinny boy! Well done to him for being so brave.

DenzelWashington · 23/05/2014 13:25

Oh good. Fingers crossed for the blood test results.

NorksEnormous · 23/05/2014 13:29

Keeping my fingers crossed for youSmile

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