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To think a scatterbrain can become organised?

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apachepony · 11/05/2014 11:19

I am a bit scatty, messy and disorganised. It really affects my work performance, I haven't done very well in work recently but have just landed an exciting challenging new job. But I'm scared to accept it because I'm going to fail again unless I seriously get more organised, and work harder and more efficiently. Aibu to think that if I read up on time management and organisation, pick up some tips and train myself really hard to follow them, that I can become organised and efficient? Or am I just fooling myself? Has anyone any success in transforming themselves from scatty to organised?

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Justgotosleepnow · 11/05/2014 23:18

Oh and a 'key pot' in your hallway/ kitchen etc. be a stickler for it. Return keys to it you find in the house (Me & my DH are 'sprinklers')
Only way I ever leave the house even vaguely on time. It's great.

ThePigOfHappiness · 11/05/2014 23:27

This thread is great.
I am a disorganised person. This is not helped by the fact that I am also messy and pretty lazy. I use lots of techniques to try to be more organised, but I find that when I'm organised with the kids and work, housework suffers etc.

I do the exact thing as above with my keys- when I use them they go back into the pocket in my handbag. I can't lose then because I out them back. If they are not there then I'm fucked because I have no way to remember where they are.
I need to be in work before 745 to start at 8. I make sure I'm always in work before 730 so I know I have time to get a cup of tea, read the diary, see what way I need to prioritise thibgs etc. I get up at 6 to leave at 655. I have time for coffee and to do my hair and make up and make sure I have everything in my bag.
When my phone is finished charging I put the charger into a ouch and out that into my handbag. I always have my charger handy then.
I have an organiser insert for my handbag. Lots of pockets so everything has a place. That way I know I always have a pen or a plaster or my diary or whatever.
I have a spare make up set in my locker and one in my handbag. I also carry a wash bag in my handbag with toothbrush, toothpaste, tampons, change of knickers, hand cream etc.
I make lists. Lots of them. Then I transfer them into my phone so alarms can go to remind me. Then I cross the things off my paper list.
It's like I have a fear of missing something, being so disorganised I can't do something or that someone will realise that I'm too disorganised for it all so I carry it all around just in case. I'm sure it's some ridiculous form of anxiety but doing these things consciously keeps me sane :)

PollyCazaletWannabe · 11/05/2014 23:44

Marking place for tips

NoCryingInEngineering · 12/05/2014 07:47

Another vote for lists here. Also seperate bags/boxes for things you do & limited places to keep important items so things do not walk

Im dyslexic & about the exact opposite of naturally organised but have maneged to get to the points were I pass as organsised at work. Trouble is Im due to start mat leave in 4 weeks & I have The Fear that non of my systems will work when Im at home with the baby so I will slide back to chaos. So would welcome any home org trips

For work stuff I have a to-do list. Paper works best for me but lots of people like electronic. List pad has a pen that lives with it and goes to all meetings along with my general notebook but only actions & due dates go on the list pad. Direy lives on the desk and meetings, deadlines & reminders go in it only. To do list gets written each morning based on stuff left from previous day, diary tasks & any overnight emails & reviewed last thing before I leave to note anything finished, anything delegatted & anyone I am waiting on a response form to close out a task. Anything delegated gets a confirmation email includeing dates if it was agreed verbally so I have something to check back against, same with info requests & a date noted to follow up in the diary.

I used to get overload if the list gets to long and just go into kind of brain freese. Now when I feel Im getting to that point I take it to my boss or to the person that most things on that list will affect and get them to help me prioritise/delagete. If there is something that needs seroious quantitys of focus I book a meeting room & dissapear off there for an hour to work on it rather than try and do it at my desk.

Or to summarise. Lists are GREAT

slightlyglitterstained · 13/05/2014 21:57

Tip I learned from a former PA: if people asked her to do something, she would always say "yes, certainly - could you just pop that in an email so I can make sure to schedule it in and I don't forget it?" She did it because she was rubbish at recognising people so it was a way of getting their names along with the request Grin but it works just as well if you find it difficult to remember verbal requests.

I ask people "can you put that in my calendar?" or "can you just drop me an IM/email for that? I don't want to forget it, and if it's not written down, I will forget it." Much easier for me to go through emails than try to rack my brains for "what was that thing X wanted so urgently earlier?"

Justgotosleepnow · 13/05/2014 22:58

Slightly that is a fantastic tip!
Plus it could get rid of the time wasters. If they can't be bothered sending the email then they don't really need it done, right?

matildasquared · 13/05/2014 23:01

Yes, on the emails! Then you always have a written record of what was agreed.

Another tip I learned from a colleague: when you need a decision from someone before you can move on, give them a deadline and a "if I don't hear from you" option.

So if someone asks you to, I don't know, produce a report, but they never told you which format they wanted it in, you could write: "I'll have the report to you by tomorrow at 4:30. Did you want the figures in A format or B format? I'll be finishing it around 3 hopefully so would be grateful if you'd let me know beforehand which format is better. If I don't hear from you otherwise I'll just use B format."

Way better than what I used to do, which was fret about the format and check my email frantically for a response for my question.

CrystalSkulls · 13/05/2014 23:04

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