That I should do all the housework bar the garden. Virtually all the childcare. Dh has probably changed 10 nappies in over a year. Most of the cooking bar throwing the odd pizza in the oven. All the nightwakings even if I am working next day and he is not. Ok to a certain extent re toddler as still breastfeeding but surely he could help when other dc poorly.
Even when we are on holiday I do the lions share.
Have 2 primary aged dc and an active toddler who is rarely in bed until 10pm
Aibu to want more help.