I judge people who see beyond their own personal experience. case in point: the judging of obese people.
When I see someone so overweight that they look to be in discomfort or pain through the amount of fat they carry my first thought is: this person is ill.
and I don't mean ill in a thyroid, gains weight easily way, I include eating compulsively, psychologically, driven towards consuming more than the human body is designed to take kind of ill.
For most people, to consume the kind of calorific load necessary to maintain that degree of obesity would be too difficult or unpleasant. It'd self regulate, so something has gone wrong with that minority of individuals where the usual 'enough' switch isn't working.
yet people persist in thinking their own thin self is down to their own moral superiority or self control. DESPITE clear evidence that it isn't (how many people weigh exactly what they want to? The number of people who would like to be 7lbs lighter than they are means we are not as in control of our weight as we like to pretend).
so people who think: 'if other people were more like me or made the choices I make they wouldn't be like that' because they can't fathom that different people are different to themselves in lots of ways, that gets my goat. I judge people for their lack of empathy and lack of beyond able to see beyond the obvious.
and I'm not a defensive overweight person sarong this. my bmi is normal but I don't assume that's because I'm less lazy or greedy than anyone else. I'm as lazy and greedy as the next person