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To think she is so bloody ungrateful!!

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hickorychicken · 27/03/2014 11:17

And lives in a different world....
Someone I know got offered a gorgeous 3 bedroom house with a massive garden etc and all sje has done is whinge! She was given a £200 decorating grant but all she keeps saying is "Oh well its not like im getting any help, i mean i need help with carpets, i cant live like this im not having it!"
Shock Shock Shock

I pointed out that i lived witg one room done for 2 YEARS. Its gotten me irrationally angry! I think im going to get a flaming but meh, some people want everything handed to them on a plate.

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MrsDeVere · 27/03/2014 21:39

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hickorychicken · 27/03/2014 21:44

Artex you are going to agree with anyone who disagrees with my OP lets be honest, Im not envious, i think its a shit attitude, like i said in an earlier post if it was mummy and daddy had moved me into a place blah blah this whole thread wouldve gone very differently but people get so defensive about SH...

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NeedsAsockamnesty · 27/03/2014 21:47

For anybody who is interested.

Most areas that still use decorating grants have rules about them these rules will be things like the following.

The house will be inspected first if its not a shit hole you won't get one.

If the house was a mutual exchange/management transfer you will not get one no matter what the outgoing tenant does after their inspection before they leave.

If the house has received a decorating grant with in x amount of years (sometimes 3-5) you will not get one.

If only one room is a shit hole I.e blood up walls dog shit all over the chipboard floor kitchen cupboards hanging off walls burns in kitchen surfaces but the rest is passable you won't get one.

If its a bathroom or kitchen that has an issue and it was updated within the last 10 years you will not get one.

If you personally received one in the last 2 years in your previous property you may not get one.

Loads are issued in vouchers for mainstream expensive shops that have restricted use I.e home base but they can only be used for paint/brushes/rollers/sand paper/filler but no wall paper/mold treatment/tools or anything else they sell.

They are not doing her a favour they are not helping her out they are helping themselves out by being able to use it to discharge their legal duty at a fraction of the cost.

Due to the nature of my work we very sadly deal with a huge amount of social housing moves often clients having to move with in months of allocation/exchange/transfer often we may have obtain grants for them for things like carpeting, curtains/fittings,decorating,cookers,serious cleaners.

from various charities (big up to SSAFA and other employment related charities from me) these brand new items go into the houses only for them to have to move again and these items get discarded even if evidence of them being brand new is provided.

expatinscotland · 27/03/2014 21:49

My response would have been exactly the same, what's it to you? So she whinges. Don't listen to it.

ArtexMonkey · 27/03/2014 21:49

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hickorychicken · 27/03/2014 21:54

What are my intentions then Artex since you know everything?

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usualsuspectt · 27/03/2014 21:58

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hickorychicken · 27/03/2014 22:00

No you are the MN know-it-all Grin

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hickorychicken · 27/03/2014 22:14

Yes!! It was about ungratefulness!
Nothing to do with benefits either.
Meh, we're never going to agree mind :)

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StealthPolarBear · 27/03/2014 22:15

" Add message | Report | Message poster usualsuspectt Thu 27-Mar-14 20:42:42
I think it's ridiculous that they rip perfectly good flooring out to leave concrete floors.

But they do."
What is the reasoning? It does seem completely mad

Can I just point out that fewer teenagers are getting pregnant. Numbers are declining year on year.

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hickorychicken · 27/03/2014 22:20

Artex you never said what my intentions were so to win the know it all prize you need to answer :D

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hickorychicken · 27/03/2014 22:29

This was quite a reasonable thread until i started making the kids tea and then i think everyone started on the wine Wink

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JohnnyBarthes · 27/03/2014 22:59

NeedsAsockamnesty it's absurd, isn't it. And another big up for SSAFA from me.

NeedsAsockamnesty · 27/03/2014 23:12

Me and usual are going to have to have a scrap about who knows everything now. AGAIN. ffs

Can I mediate please?

NeedsAsockamnesty · 27/03/2014 23:17

Stealth.

It's because if there is anything wrong with any item left they don't wish to be liable for its upkeep and if they let the property with something in it they are.

Occasionally you will get away with them leaving a shower in but you will have to sign a disclaimer and pay for it to be checked.they won't let you do it with anything else.

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NeedsAsockamnesty · 28/03/2014 00:08

Piss off with your wild accusations.

I will have you know I have not been working today because I was far to busy licking salt dough.