I'm having a crap time at the moment so I may well be unreasonable/emotional as I have an a 11day old in neonatal and 19 month at home! Anyway got home from hospital today to receive a letter from the student loan company, asking me to provide evidence that I am a stay at home mum! I called and asked what type of evidence they would like as I do not receive any benefits but happy to provide bank statements. They said bank statements would be helpful but they would also need a letter from my husband proving I'm a stay at home mum! Aibu or is it a stupid request to need a letter from my husband. How is this evidence, I could write the letter myself!! Sorry this is turning more into a rant!