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to think attitudes to carers still stink in this country?

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fideline · 17/03/2014 19:12

(There is a small element of 'fred about a fred' to this, for which apologies)

  1. Having been engaged in a lengthy difference of opinion with me on another thread, a poster has this evening announced that she can see from my posting history that I am 'not a grafter'.

She can only be referring to the 'years out' that I took to care for my child who has Autism (the only break from paid employment I have ever had).

  1. Also this week, have applied for my first PAYE job in a while (10 hours a week to supplement my freelance career and provide variety). A friend in a related (mine is very niche) field offered to look over the CV I had adapted for the purpose.

Even she (I am disappointed) made a remark to the effect that I couldn't call the years in question a 'break to provide care for a family member' as the person in question is my child.

Two in one week. I'm speechless.

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LetZygonsbeZygons · 28/03/2014 16:52

Have you seen this thread? check it out.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/2038589-or-naive-to-be-so-shocked-about-carers-payments

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