To let him do all his own shit?

[HappyGoLuckyGirl]

DP is lazy. Really bloody lazy!

Fed up of picking up his dirty socks/boxers, cleaning his bathroom, putting his dishes in the dishwasher, washing his clothes, picking up his prescriptions, etc!

WIBU to leave all his crap where he drops/leaves it and wait for him to do it himself?

And how do I stop myself getting annoyed at all his crap lying around and half loads of washing, etc?? I'm a clean and tidy person and think that it will drive me mad!

Are you going to clean up after him or leave the highchair in a mess for him to sort out later?

Personally, I'd take the filthy highchair round to his step dad's and leave it with him with a breezy, 'Ooops, you forgot this. See you later'

Fuck him.

Just saw another thread your wrote about him in Feb.

Just don't bother.

It was last night FairEnuff, the high chair is still there now. Balls if I'm doing it!

Orchard - I know, I know. I've got another one going today too. I think we're over.

Sorry to bring it up on this thread.

Just feel bad for you. You're not his skivvy and if anything he should be on his best behaviour atm.

Hope you're at least enjoying this weather and a for later!

I feel sorry for me too.

He's taken DS to his Dad's for Sunday lunch.

I'm sat here alone with the realisation that we're over. I don't even know if I love him anymore

But fuck if he thinks I'm cleaning up after him!

That's the spirit!

I don't think anyone could possibly blame you for feeling that way, all things considered

Well done OP!

When you go back to work, are you in any position to get a cleaner when you go back to work? It forces my DP to tidy up, as I won't do it for him.

It won't really matter lotsofcheese as we won't be living together for much longer. A couple of months more probably.

Do you have an exit plan Happy?

No.

I've nowhere to go and the money in my savings is for bills until I go back to work in April.

He has nowhere to go either so it looks like we're stuck with each for the next couple of months at least.

I don't know how to handle the split either. It's going to be extremely difficult while we're still living together.