My bf is manager of a company. A few months ago i discovered he was texting a 17 year old girl who works for him around 300 times a month. I went mad even though he swore nothing dodgy was going on and he said he'd told her to not contact him anymore out of work hours.
Last night i saw a text come through from her along the lines of hope you're happy soon, you know where i am, night. He said she was going through a hard time at work and he was giving her advice. I told him to leave. He thinks he is doing nothing wrong but i disagree.
AIBU? Is it ok for them to be texting at night? What could he possibly have in common with a teenage girl? Am i overreacting? Surely any work matters should be discussed in a formal meeting at work in work hours.