My mum comes to my house 5 days a week 'for a cuppa' if in not in when she comes over she gets in a right huff.
Today i had to make a doctors appt for my son, she happened to come over whilst i was at the doctors, i received a text saying that i should have known she was coming and she's sick to death of walking over 'like an idiot'
Now this is not the first time, she is possibly the most petty person you will meet, i just snapped this time and text back that i was in the docs because id found a lump in DSs neck and that i forgot i had to inform her every time i leave the house. I subsequently got called an 'ungrateful little bastard' threatened to give me a hiding for daring to speak to her like that and warned to stay out of her way.
This is what happened if you DARE say the wrong thing to my mum. You will be threatened. Well in sick of walking on eggshells, but this is a cycle, she does this then after a few weeks i forgive because i feel sorry for her that she had no friends (fucking wonder why) and she gets away with treating me like this
She has never in my whole life apologized for any of the nasty shit she's said during arguments.
She says i have no respect for her, but clearly she has no respect for me, in a 27 year old woman FFS