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To think that P&C spaces in supermarket car parks

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Braganza · 20/02/2014 08:19

AIBU to think that where there is a pedestrian pavement down the middle of a supermarket car park, it would make far more sense to have the parent and child parking in a well lit area further away from the entrance. This would mean that the spaces would not get clogged up by drivers without children too lazy to find a space, and in some car parks could be in an area with less traffic.

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ziggiestardust · 20/02/2014 14:55

Even I were making it up - which I'm not - it doesn't detract from my original question. P&C parking may be more convenient if you are the parent of a small child but does it make your need greater?

Yes, in my eyes it is greater than a supermarket patron who is able bodied and on their own or accompanied by other able bodied adults. That's why I don't park in p&c; because there are people who need it more than I do.

curiousgeorgie · 20/02/2014 14:56

Notso - it wasn't just mildly annoying. It wasn't long after my c section and it hurt like hell.

ClaudiusGalen · 20/02/2014 14:56

Because my mother cannot walk, georgie. If you could arrange for that to be to fixed, well done. Otherwise are you saying that my disabled mother shouldn't ever go in a car? You can get children out of a car without an extra wide space. It is not even difficult. You cannot get a wheelchair out in a normal space. How is this difficult for you to understand?

ziggiestardust · 20/02/2014 14:57

Oh I see claudius, you just came across as rather older than that was all. Kind of 'didn't have that sort of thing in my day so you shouldn't'. Interesting.

curiousgeorgie · 20/02/2014 14:57

Bowlersarm - I think they should have loads of it, at the back if the car park. These threads would quickly disappear and people with 'sore knees' would have to park in a normal space!

Braganza · 20/02/2014 14:58

runningwillpower perhaps that just says that Waitrose customers are less likely to have young children

It's not really a question of who needs a space though most is it? A more convenient shopping experience will get more families shopping there. Supermarkets are driven by commercial, not social logic, so it's a bit of a red herring to make it a choice between the two.

Assuming that supermarkets want family shoppers, I take it that it's not controversial that it's more convenient to have spaces designed for them away from the store front.

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ClaudiusGalen · 20/02/2014 14:58

I'm 33, not that it matters. Some of us just don't see having children as something we need extra consideration for.

curiousgeorgie · 20/02/2014 14:59

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ziggiestardust · 20/02/2014 15:00

Mmm. You sound a bit holier than thou tbh. I'll let you enjoy that though. It's working for you.

ClaudiusGalen · 20/02/2014 15:00

Disabled people should not exist? Lovely.

I said if you cannot get children in and out of a car in a normal space then don't drive or don't have children. I did not deny the rights of a group of people protected by the Equality Act.

notso · 20/02/2014 15:01

You said you had a 7 month old in a car seat, curiousgeorgie

curiousgeorgie · 20/02/2014 15:01

Yes, that's what I said.

You also said babies shouldn't exist, or that people with children shouldn't drive cars.

Touché?

curiousgeorgie · 20/02/2014 15:02

Notso, she's 7 months now.

ClaudiusGalen · 20/02/2014 15:02

Not holier than thou. I just see people with disabilities struggle daily because their parking spaces are either full or further away from the shop than the P&C ones an I really do not equate having children with a disability.

curiousgeorgie · 20/02/2014 15:02

Where? Give us examples of where P&C is nearer.

ziggiestardust · 20/02/2014 15:02

And I don't think it matters where the p&c spaces are; put them at the back of the car park for all I care, just more room is definitely handy when you're new to lugging round all that gear! I find people tend to drive more carefully round the p&c bit too.

ClaudiusGalen · 20/02/2014 15:03

No, I said if you cannot get a child out of a car in a normal space you shouldn't drive. Or you could choose to not have children.

SauvignonBlanche · 20/02/2014 15:03

Claudius that's disgusting, disabalist nonsense, you should spologise
if you can't get yourself in and out of a car then you shouldn't be driving
So someone who's paraplegic and needs space to transfer into their wheelchair should be allowed to drive? Angry

curiousgeorgie · 20/02/2014 15:03

And please, examples of where they are FULL?!

Rubbish.

ClaudiusGalen · 20/02/2014 15:03

Tesco in Blackburn, Lancashire.

ClaudiusGalen · 20/02/2014 15:04

Sainsbury's Darwen were all full yesterday at 13:10 and again at 15:30.

Skipton on Tuesday.

comicsansisevil · 20/02/2014 15:05

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ziggiestardust · 20/02/2014 15:05

claudius where I am, the disabled bays are right at the shop front, along with a dedicated crosshatched walkway bit so people can load wheelchairs and mobility aids in the boot. I don't think I've ever parked in a p&c closer than a disabled bay. I really don't. But I can stand by to be corrected!

curiousgeorgie · 20/02/2014 15:05

Googlemaps link?

Lets see this miles away disabled parking!

ClaudiusGalen · 20/02/2014 15:05

Sauvignon I didn't say that, curiousgeorgie did!

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