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To think that other drivers who don't acknowledge you when you let them pass or out of junctions are just rude, ignorant twats?

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NeonMuffin · 17/02/2014 10:58

I was always taught by my driving instructor that when out driving if someone lets you pass or let's you out of a junction when they don't have to then its common courtesy to wave, smile, nod your head or if dark flash your lights to thank them.

I've always done this and to be fair most drivers do acknowledge you when you let them pass. So it really pisses me off when they don't. Just now I was driving into my street, it's a tight corner with cars parked either side and as I turned in another car was driving towards me driven by an older looking lady. Obviously due to cars being parked there was no where for her to pull into and it was quite obvious that she had no intention of reversing to allow me to drive onto the street despite it being my right of way. So to avoid a stalemate I reversed back onto the main road, something which is obviously quite dangerous and possibly illegal. She then drove on and completely blanked me, no smile, so wave no nod, nothing.

I didn't have to reverse to allow her to come through, it was my right of way after all. I could have been really awkward and refused to budge making her reverse back down the street but I didn't. An acknowledgment would have been nice, to me it's the driving equivalent of not saying please or thank you in a shop or when someone holds a door open for you.

Why are some people such rude, ignorant cunts? It really, really pisses me off for some reason?

OP posts:
goldopals · 19/02/2014 08:59

People generally use hand gestures to thank drivers who do something nice (and lift the whole hand off the wheel). I used to live in a very remote part of country SA where you would gesture every time you saw another driver. This gesture consisted of raising your index finger off the wheel

Emma9308 · 05/11/2014 15:48

You shouldn't reverse out of your driveway , it is illegal so why should the other driver thank you ?

RinkyTinkTen · 05/11/2014 22:11

You don't have to take your whole hand off the wheel though, I often raise my fingers in a thank you whilst my hand is still on the wheel if that makes sense I also briefly flash my lights as a thanks sometimes too. Sorry

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