To be pissed off with DH acting like a big baby

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So valentines evening he was meant to be taking me out for dinner. Turns out as has happened before he's booked nothing nowhere has any space as they wouldn't and we end up driving round aimlesslessly and go home with mcdonalds.
We rowed and I said to him I'm so sick of him planning nothing like EVER. Special birthdays he plans nothing. Holidays I've always ever planned. His excuse is 'I'm good at that stuff' (which he's also said about kids birthday parties presents etc). I'm fed up. We've been married ten years in a few weeks and I feel like if I didn't plan EVERYTHING we'd do nothing ever. AIBU to tell him he has to change or I'm offski

I don't think this is about Valentines day, it's the general lack of thought for OP by her husband.

OP as you are so good at organising things why don't you organise a spa weekend for yourself to think about where you go from here.

Don't organise anything at home while you are away let him sort it out.

I think the only chance I would give him would be to organise some relate sessions to see where your marriage goes from here. It might give him awake up call, but on the other hand it will prove what he wants to put into your marriage going forward. Be really clear about will happen if he can not be bothered to do this one thing.

AF- I really haven't felt like it or done it for a while.

I don't blame you. The pathetic antics of these menbabies are certain to shrivel even the perkiest of libidos.