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AIBU?

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324 replies

ClockWatchingLady · 07/02/2014 21:55

Should schools/LEAs allow parents to take children out of school for a holiday (once per year, say) during term time?

There's been plenty of debate already, so let's just have a little show of hands so we can count up...

I say YES.

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trice · 08/02/2014 10:27

Yes.

PolterGoose · 08/02/2014 10:28

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VotePedroPony · 08/02/2014 10:51

Yes

MrsAMerrick · 08/02/2014 11:01

No, but there ought to be some discretion for exceptional circumstances.

AmysTiara · 08/02/2014 12:27

Yes

MoominIsGoingToBeAMumWaitWHAT · 08/02/2014 13:27

No but exceptional circumstances should apply including (but not limited to):

  • Bereavement/family terminal or severe illness
  • Family visiting from overseas
  • Army families
  • Emergency services families
  • Families where the children are young carers (my dad's illness meant we couldn't go away during the busy times, and being able to go on holiday and forget our caring duties for a while helped us to cope the rest of the time)
  • Weddings/funerals/reunions/events like that.
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PortofinoRevisited · 08/02/2014 13:29

no

JanuaryShoes · 08/02/2014 13:29

Yes if it's a funeral, close family member's wedding etc

No if it's because you think you're entitled to a week in the sun and can't afford school holiday prices.

StairsInTheNight · 08/02/2014 14:07

Yes.

SparklyTwinkleGlitter · 08/02/2014 14:10

Yes

Mandy2003 · 08/02/2014 15:07

Yes, up to Yr9, after that there's too much to catch up on.

VikingVagine · 08/02/2014 15:10

YES

I'm a teacher in France, it's still an acceptable thing to do here (technically we can threaten the parents with a benefits cut, but we don't do it unless it's a real piss take, ie months on end).

Sleepingbunnies · 08/02/2014 15:11

Yes if it doesn't clash with exams.

TheRealAmandaClarke · 08/02/2014 15:18

Yes, as long as general attendance is good and the holiday isn't for a month.

JackShit · 08/02/2014 15:26

No. Holidays are a luxury, not a necessity.

ScarlettMantleplume · 08/02/2014 15:28

Yes.

Borntorun25 · 08/02/2014 15:33

Yes

RinkyDinkyDoo · 08/02/2014 15:34

Can the teachers opt for holidays during term time too, so they can enjoy cheaper rates? That would be good.
"My child learns so much on holiday with me when we visit new places, it's such an educational experience". Erm, sitting on a beach/ by the pool and eating in the local English style pub, yes defo a reason to miss school.

Reincarnatedpig · 08/02/2014 15:38

No. Primary fair enough, not secondary. In DD2's secondary they sit GCSEs from year 9, you can't just go ahead and miss a week or two. It holds the rest of the class back if teacher has to devote time and attention to helping absent kids catch up.

Innogen · 08/02/2014 15:38

No.

GoofyIsACow · 08/02/2014 15:40

My DS is yr 1 so i think 5 days off for the first and last time is not a big ask.

And yes, it is to just go on holiday, he may learn about fiching with his grandad but other than that it will be one big swimming lesson!

Once DT's are at school I will be pleased to see the back of them five days a week ;)

BronzeHorseman · 08/02/2014 15:40

No.

moobaloo · 08/02/2014 15:42

Yes

Utterbollocks · 08/02/2014 15:43

Yes, if good attendance & not during certain times such as exams.

Just before Xmas or summer hols would be a less crucial times. Or maybe teachers could cluster their strikes & let us know in advance the dates when they feel it's not important four our kids to be in school.

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