Well no, we don't have only one side, Boney. The school have released a long and rather damning (to them!) statement.
www.sloughobserver.co.uk/news/roundup/articles/2014/02/05/97444-headteacher-says-pupil-expelled-for-bringing-in-mini-cheddars-committed-persistent-and-deliberate-breaches-of-healthy-eating-policy/
If they wanted to leave it open, they would say 'We never comment on pupil matters, which are confidential', and then it would be 100% possible that the child was excluded for violence, or anything, but they actually made a long statement.
Specifically:
"Colnbrook CofE Primary School has recently introduced a healthy eating policy across the school"
Ok, but this cannot be possibly be an exclusion matter, since the food is provided by the parents. A six year old does not choose his lunch.
"We have not excluded a pupil for just having mini cheddars in their lunchbox, but where there is a persistent and deliberate breach of school policy, such as bringing in crisps, biscuits, sausage rolls, mini sausages, scotch eggs and similar, and all other avenues have been exhausted, the Governors would expect further action to be taken."
Here they appear to confirm that this was about parental food choices, again not legal grounds for exclusion.
"If we are faced with a situation where a parent threatens to send a pupil into school with insufficient food to sustain them throughout the school day, it is a risk we simply cannot afford to happen."
And again, these are parental actions, not legal grounds for exclusions. The statutory exclusion policy, which the school MUST follow by law, specifically mentions lunch times, and says for instance that if there is a problem with behaviour at lunch time, then the school should investigate whether special lunchtime arrangements can be made.
"Today [Tuesday] the school has taken the decision to permanently exclude a pupil for the following reasons:
- Persistent breaches of school policies."
This is not reassuring, either. They should refer to the school's Behaviour Policy. The fact that they don't specifically refer to this suggests again that they are not following the law.
"- During the course of a recent four day exclusion, the pupil’s parents made it publicly clear that their child would not be following the school's policy on healthy eating upon their return."
And they confirm here, that the action was taken for illegal reasons, the parents' behaviour.
"- The parent school relationship suffering an irretrievable breakdown that would have put two pupils in an unacceptable position."
Again, they don't seem to either know or care about the correct exclusion procedures
"This breakdown was due to misrepresentations in the local and national media that were both wholly inaccurate and grossly misleading,"
Again, misrepresentations in the media are absolutely NOT grounds for excluding the child.
" abusive language being used towards staff,"
Abusive language towards staff is a parental thing. If they seriously cannot deal with one or both of the parents, they need to at least attempt to accommodate them, e.g., by banning the father from the premises, if he is the problem.
" and other inappropriate actions being taken that were designed to damage the school’s reputation."
Quite apart from the fact that appears to be in special measures, so it's not clear what kind of reputation they have to uphold, this is again NOT a legal ground for excluding TWO children from the school.
He is clearly unfit to be a Headteacher