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Is this normal???

38 replies

Nataleejah · 01/02/2014 15:07

I saw this in a supermarket yesterday -- a toddler spat out his dummy on the floor, dad picked it up, LICKED it, and gave it back to the child. Shock

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StealthPolarBear · 01/02/2014 15:09

Well it's a bit grim but yes normal ime

cerealqueen · 01/02/2014 15:10

I've seen this many times, so yes, its is 'normal' or routine. Whether it is advisable is a whole other debate.

AwfulMaureen · 01/02/2014 15:10

Have you been living in a cupboard for most of your life OP? Grin It's gross but loads of people do it.

DarlingGrace · 01/02/2014 15:14

Must be a third or subsequent child Grin

Toddler = fingers everywhere anyway. Wouldn't be any more germy than putting his own fingers in his mouth

Bowlersarm · 01/02/2014 15:15

It was perfectly normal in our house.

Bowlersarm · 01/02/2014 15:16

By that I just mean, "yes we did this-a lot"!

SomethingkindaOod · 01/02/2014 15:17

Totally normal and definitely wouldn't be a PFB Grin. Small amount of germs versus potentially wailing child in supermarket. No brainer as far as I'm concerned!

Nataleejah · 01/02/2014 15:17

Still looks yucky Confused
Just like i hear some mother say they chew food for their children...

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SugarplumKate · 01/02/2014 15:18

Yes, I would have thought most parents have done this at some time. As soon as babies can move, they put all sorts in their mouths!

saffstel · 01/02/2014 15:18

I've seen it, it's hideous.
I used to carry 2

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WorraLiberty · 01/02/2014 15:18

Completely normal

raffle · 01/02/2014 15:21

We do this.
It's because I think my saliva is much cleaner than a supermarket floor.
I would rather sook the germs than give them to a baby.

LEMmingaround · 01/02/2014 15:25

People chew food for their children? What do they think they are? Birds???

As for the dummy - yeah, perfectly normal

LEMmingaround · 01/02/2014 15:32

Ah but Somethingkindaood - thats a celebrity "mom" they aren't real! Grin Hasn't she heard of purees?

Topaz25 · 01/02/2014 16:56

Why lick it? Wouldn't that just transfer some (but not all) of the germs from the floor into the parent's mouth then give it back to the child still with germs from the floor plus germs from the parent's mouth? It would be better not to lick it. Licking won't kill the germs from the floor, it will just add more.

Topaz25 · 01/02/2014 17:03

I'm definitely not a very clean, tidy or germ phobic person but the idea of licking something that has been in someone else's mouth and then on the floor or spitting chewed up food from my mouth into someone else's makes me shudder and feel sick.

Bowlersarm · 01/02/2014 17:10

It's not any old someone's mouth though Topaz it's your very own babies mouth.

I found it really natural to lick my sons dummy after it had fallen on the floor. I'm surprised people are horrified by it tbh.

Mushypeasandchipstogo · 01/02/2014 17:12

This normal? It's absolutely disgusting. UGH!

arethereanyleftatall · 01/02/2014 17:17

I did it. Not just a lick either, but a good old suck. Kind of assumed I would be taking the floors germs but I was probably wrong. Oh well.

OOAOML · 01/02/2014 17:18

I think one of the reasons mine didn't have dummies is that there's no way I would be picking something up off the ground, licking it and then putting it back into my child's mouth.

Weelady77 · 01/02/2014 17:21

Screaming baby in supermarket or a licked dummy...... The licked dummy wins every time!

Catsize · 01/02/2014 17:25

Have seen it, think it's not very nice, but wonder of more germs would picked up via parental sucking than licking the floor. Probably!

Mushypeasandchipstogo · 01/02/2014 17:26

So you get the germs and the baby? Yep I am definitely disgusted bowlersarm

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