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AIBU?

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to think a teacher shouldn't comment about their pupils on fb?

130 replies

Justholdthesmile · 24/01/2014 21:24

Just that really.

And I'm talking about every kind of situation.

I deal with customers every single day - some are lovely and some even wish death on you, but I would never comment about them (or colleagues for that matter) even if I never mentioned their name over FB.

AIBU?

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usuallyright · 25/01/2014 09:04

in my 'people you might know' on twitter, a teacher at my dds school appeared. Many of her tweets slag off work, kids, colleagues, parents of kids.
If I want to criticise the school (which I don't) I could, because I don't work there and it's not going to risk my employment. A teacher should have more bloody sense.
The teacher I spotted slagging kids off on twitter had better be careful she doesn't name someone I know, or screenshots and email might be involved...

Shockers · 25/01/2014 10:07

I'm a TA at the primary school my DS attended, so some parents were already friends before I started there. It's difficult when we go away on holiday together as I can't post photographs that have their children on, even if they ask me to share them.

I have occasionally posted about how proud I am of our children on school trips and residentials, but I never post about feeling ill (might get blamed for being contagious), feeling low ( school might think I can't do my job properly), having a rubbish day, or about anything individual children have done or said.

Basically, I will not post anything that I wouldn't say in public, because despite my privacy settings being friends only, fb is a public forum.

spidey66 · 25/01/2014 10:13

I'm a nurse and wouldn't dream of talking of my patients on FB. In fact apart from saying something vague like 'tough day at work today' or saying to a colleague 'see you at work tomorrow' I don't mention the place at all.

Kittymalinky · 25/01/2014 10:18

I sometimes post about my pupils, not individually though. General 'had a lovely class trip out with y5, they were great' 'or wet and soggy after being out with the kids' etc.

I always make sure it's positive though, never moan or complain about them in FB.

indyandlara · 25/01/2014 10:18

Are you on her friends' list? If so, someone needs to tell her that you don't have parents as friends on FB. If it is an open account, it needs to be secure so only friends see it. How did you come upon it? We're you searching for the teacher?

indyandlara · 25/01/2014 10:24

We're?.. Were

GoodnessKnows · 25/01/2014 11:03

Just leave teachers to have a life. You're clearly not her friend so either unfriend her or don't bumming snoop!

Applefallingfromthetree2 · 25/01/2014 11:06

Absolutely unacceptable and if the school found out I would imagine it would lead to a disciplinary

AntoinetteCosway · 25/01/2014 11:17

Someone I know who worked in a sixth form college used to put up excerpts of his students' UCAS applications in order to laugh at them. He is a TWAT of the highest order and was recently fired. I don't know why you'd become a teacher if you have so little respect for students.

Thatisall · 25/01/2014 13:01

No teacher should be commenting about pupils online or sharing stories about them really.

I've been shocked about some of the 'non-anonymous' (not sure what word to use) tweets written by teachers. Openly trolling and bullying, using homophobic and racist language. It's terrible really and it think it's a higher problem than a teacher saying they've had a bad day to their Facebook friends.

Spinkle · 25/01/2014 13:13

I'm afraid as a teacher not only can you expect to be frowned on for drinking in a catchment pub on a PD day (eating lunch!), even buying sanitary products near the school and posting anything about work on Facebook.

Just don't. It's not worth it.

I get reports of parents slagging the school off on Facebook though (not on FB myself) that's OK though Hmm

JustAWaterForMePlease · 25/01/2014 15:24

It is very easy to set your profile so you can't be searched for Not any more! They got rid of that in the last update. Bastards.

Philoslothy · 25/01/2014 15:27

I don't know what a PD is.

I live on catchment, I drink in my local, buy sanitary products in the local shop ( not even sure why that would be an issue) and I even kiss my husband in public. In fact I may even go wild and tap his bottom.

I am a teacher for a part of my life, it does not define me. It is just a job to pay the bills.

howrudeforme · 25/01/2014 15:29

It's generally just posting about conversation she had with pupils. But sometimes other things too.

OK so if kid can be identified then teacher will be in shit if found out. And deserves so.

Really, who uses facebook? Really? Would a person in the public eye really put something on that site? If they do then I have no sympathy.

Philoslothy · 25/01/2014 15:30

I think quite a few people use FB. Just a hunch I have

MissDuke · 25/01/2014 15:36

Nope it is not acceptable at all! I am a student midwife and we have it drummed into us not to refer to work/uni at all on FB etc. I have never even identified myself as a student on there. It isn't worth getting into trouble over.

Farahilda · 25/01/2014 15:53

I think a teacher should never post anything about what happens in school unless it is something that could obviously be said in front of their pupils, HT, PTA rep and chair of Governors.

So "Nativity play today. It went so well and I'm so proud of everyone" would be OK. Just about anything else wouldn't be.

BobPatSamandIgglePiggle · 25/01/2014 16:13

Having a drink in my local is worth it - I'm buggered if my local job is going to dictate where i drink! Silliness comment ever!

Alisvolatpropiis · 25/01/2014 16:24

Spinkle

Sanitary products shouldn't be bought in the catchment? What?

Philoslothy · 25/01/2014 16:50

I have sex most nights in catchment, in summer with the windows open. I also shit and piss in catchment. Heck I masturabte and pluck my chin hair in catchment.

I will hand in my notice now.

moldingsunbeams · 25/01/2014 16:56

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expatinscotland · 25/01/2014 17:00

Stupid and unprofessional. YANBU.

BabyMummy29 · 25/01/2014 17:04

Philoslothy That actually made me laugh out loud - well said.

A workmate of mine thinks that as we live and work in the same catchment area we shouldn't go out socially or, horror of horrors, be seen to be enjoying ourselves at all where we might be seen by parents or pupils. Needless to say I ignore her advice and carry on as normal.

Why should your job dictate your out of work life?

BoneyBackJefferson · 25/01/2014 18:49

Sometime ago the government tried to implement a rule that meant if a known teacher was seen to be acting in an inappropriate way they could be removed from the teaching register.

"Crimes" for this where things like being in a pub and buying alcohol in the supermarket.

Thank fuck that they had some common sense and it never happened.

Philoslothy · 25/01/2014 19:07

I know about the inappropriate behaviour but this could not possibly include buying alcohol