Just had a huge row with soon to be ex dp. It just seems that he always wants me to travel to his. I don't mind and he does sometimes come to mine but recently he has been moaning on and on about how skint he is and how he cannot afford the petrol to see me.
It is half an hour away and it would cost him about a fiver. I'm not asking him to come over every frigging night... Just one a week or even fortnight. So he's too skint to afford a fiver a fortnight to see me?
Initially we agreed on alternating visits but recently I've been doing all the running. He's on at least 18,000 a year but pays maintenance .
Even so I still earn less than him and have to pay for sitters. He told he I must get more than him what with my benefits. I told him he comes across as tight, controlling an dun romantic. He says I have judged him unfairly and has thrown his toys out of the pram. He is not talking. So who is being unreasonable here? I did apologise as I felt bad for saying that stuff but goodness I was hurt.