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re MN campaigns

59 replies

coco44 · 07/01/2014 23:44

Ok well I'll probably get deleted but I just want to vent about some of the MN campaigns, which I find are very dogmatic and partial.
Firstly 'Pink stinks' .WEll I am all for letting all children have access to pink, blue, orange purple, dolls, tractors, prams , dinosaurs.But I don't think all children are blank slates.Female animals usually have different roles and tempeaments to males.Why shouldn't girls be allowed and encouraged to be pink and sparkly and feminine if that is what they want! why should they have to deny their nurturing instincts? But 'pink stinks' is just so scathing and dismisssive of what lots (not all) girls are!

secondly the 'we believe you' campaign.This really scares me Women should undoubtedly be always encouraged to tell and be listened to .But statistically well over half of us are parents of boys.
a woman could falsely accuse one of your sons ( or your DH) wreck their career, marriage, reputation, life , and everyone should just automatically believe the worst of your DC because he is a male.To hell with de, judge and jury! I think and hope the campaign is well meaning but terribly worded.A Fraisier Crane-esque 'WE are listening' would have been so much less sinister

Let girls be girls.More pontificating.You are not going to dress your own pre-teen dds in boob tubes and stillettos (and neither am I).But Stop imposing your views on others!!

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Tweasels · 07/01/2014 23:51

Ok

OneUp · 07/01/2014 23:51

coco a huge percentage of rapes don't get prosecuted. To be honest, we probably need more belief.

Tweasels · 07/01/2014 23:53

Go do some research coco and it will become clear to you why you are talking out of your arse.

NotAnotherPackedLunchBox · 07/01/2014 23:56
Biscuit
IamGluezilla · 07/01/2014 23:57

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Giyadas · 08/01/2014 00:01

YABU

mrscumberbatch · 08/01/2014 00:05

How very daily mail of you OPConfused

CosmicDespot · 08/01/2014 00:07

Yes. YABU.

Busyoldfool · 08/01/2014 00:20

I think you have a good point. Campaigns telling us how we should think are worrying although as Gluezilla says - there is a lot in there and it is late.

I am the mother of a son though; a rather naive boy who was regularly set up and bullied by being made a fool of in school - especially by girls. I am also the mother of a DD.

BeyondTheLimitsOfAcceptability · 08/01/2014 00:43

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SunshineOnACrappyDay · 08/01/2014 02:01

Beyond Grin

YABFU OP.

Grennie · 08/01/2014 02:06

Girls are not born naturally loving pink. 100 years ago pink was considered a boy's colour and pale blue a girls' colour.

MrsTerryPratchett · 08/01/2014 02:11

I would lay pretty heavy money on female animals not being attracted to pink sparkly things. Seriously, OP, I am willing to set up a proper experiment if you give me a thousand pounds if I'm right. All I need is a couple of female ocelots and a lioness. Oh, and some pink, sparkly tat from the Pound Shop.

lisianthus · 08/01/2014 02:33

2/10

Adeleh · 08/01/2014 02:47

Terrypratchett - are you going to repeat the experiment by offering dinky cars and action men to the ocelots and lionesses?

MrsTerryPratchett · 08/01/2014 03:08

Hmm, that's a good question. I shall offer a range of cars and dolls in various stages of glitter and pink. I possibly need some lions and male ocelots for a control group. It's going to be expensive in wildlife. Might be cheaper with ferrets and donkeys.

Giyadas · 08/01/2014 04:22

How do you titillate an ocelot?

oscillate it's tits a lot.

ThisLittlePiggyStayedHome · 08/01/2014 04:27

Pink Stinks isn't a MN campaign.

Geckos48 · 08/01/2014 04:33

Oh dear

MrsTerryPratchett · 08/01/2014 04:37

Giyadas I hope you realise that it is people like you who devalue decent ocelot based science. Shame on you. Ocelots are sad. Sad

Logg1e · 08/01/2014 05:06

Regarding rape and our sons. You think that the issue is our sons being at risk of false accusation - that's the issue to you?

DoctorTwo · 08/01/2014 05:42

Well done OP. Start a thread with a bitchplop then ignore replies. Poor behaviour imo. Very poor.

HoratiaDrelincourt · 08/01/2014 07:09

Some of us think that debunking rape myths protects our sons too.

As for the rest... Missing. The. Point.

GuybrushThreepwoodMP · 08/01/2014 07:13

Utterly ridiculous, OP.

  1. Do you believe that pink is an instinct?
  2. You have completely missed the point.
fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 08/01/2014 07:27

You have posted some nice stuff about disability on another thread too...you are a contraversial wee thing aren't you.