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To buy this land and risk upsetting the tenants next door

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Mrsdavidcaruso · 04/01/2014 12:31

Long story short. My house is at the back of a large house which was converted into flats last year. I own the freehold to my property and have had problems with the tenants of the flats parking on what is actually my land. It got bad when the LL of the large house 'rented' a part of my property to one of his tenants as an extra parking space and it took a long time and solicitors letters to get it all sorted.

I also had to spend money on getting bollards and a fence to ensure no-one parked on my property.

My property is at the end of a T shape and I part is used as a passage to my house ( I have legal access over it) and a parking area for 5 cars rented by the LL to his tenants

However because of all the problems my solicitor has done some digging to ensure my legal right of way and that nothing comes back to bite me on the bum with the owners of the large house.

It then got interesting - it seems that the LL bought the large house at auction on a 99 year lease. My Solicitor saw the legal pack and there was no mention of the land on the paperwork.

He has now found out through the freeholder that the land does not actually belong to the large house but to the house next door.

The freeholder of the house next door has confirmed yes its his land but as he does not live in the house was unaware that the LL of the large house was using it as far as he was aware only I had access to it.

He has now contacted my Solicitors and offered to sell me the land, If I don’t want to buy he is going to offer the LL the chance to lease it from him but if he does that I am worried about my own access across it.

I am very tempted I can enlarge my garden and my husband (who rents a garage ) can also park his car on the property we can afford it and it may increase the value of my house and provide a safer environment for my DS and bump when he/she arrives.

But that is not going to sit well with the tenants of the large house and I can forsee huge problems with them as a couple were very abusive to me during the problem with the parking before.

I have a couple of weeks to decide. I know it would not fair to the tenants but its something they will have to take up with their LL as either he has been badly advised/mistaken or is chancing his arm renting out parking spaces when he knows its not his land (I suspect the latter).

According to my Solicitor there would be no legal or planning issues if I wanted to change the area to a larger garden (although I will check with the council myself)

So would I be UR to buy it

OP posts:
AnneEyhtMeyer · 09/02/2014 18:11

Sorry to hear you haven't been well. Just try to forget about it all, safe in the knowledge that when you are up to it you will be able to block their access to parking and get your lovely garden. If it isn't next week it doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things.

I would still be tempted to get the diggers booked in for next week, though. Wink

AncientPigeon · 09/02/2014 20:57

Glad you're OK, I saw your original thread and I'm very happy to hear of your crappy neighbours comeuppance!

ExitPursuedTheRoyalPrude · 09/02/2014 21:01

Sending best wishes to you OP.

This is like a parking thread on steroids.

AcrossthePond55 · 09/02/2014 21:02

So glad you and baby are OK. Let DH take it from here, I think. You need to try to relax and make plans for a lovely garden to share with your new baby and family.

swampytiggaa · 09/02/2014 22:28

delurking to say - can't believe the tennants are still being shitty about this! you would think that they would be being super nice in the hope that you would show them mercy and let them park there for a bit longer! stooopids!

good luck x all the best with baby x

Lambzig · 09/02/2014 22:34

The important stuff is your family and baby. While you have provided us with the most entertaining parking thread ever, for which I totally thank you, it is definitely not worth getting stressed about.

I expect that anyone told that they can park until the 13th, would always do the convenient thing until the 13th. Try not to worry about it, just go ahead with your plans and don't let bin bag lady rile you.Thanks

PigletJohn · 10/02/2014 00:44

time to get that plough booked.

thanksamillion · 10/02/2014 07:15

I think PigletJohn will be coming with a plough himself if you'll let him!

Clutterbugsmum · 10/02/2014 07:33

5 days until freedom in parking.

Although I would expect at least binlady one person will leave their carparked on your land Friday night, Saturday morning. I would contact the LL/LA for them a reminder to them about cars to be removed by x time Saturday, especialy after this weekend behaviour.

Damnautocorrect · 10/02/2014 09:37

Bless your brother in law looking after a crying ds and having a shouty woman at him.
Glad you and the baby are ok, last thing you need is the stress from her.

whoislester · 10/02/2014 10:06

if there are any cars left on your property then i would be tempted to plough a moat effectively cutting off thier access to drive thier car off your land. leave it like that till monday evening, then let them get thier car back.

BUT thats becuase im mean, and i could take the stress of them banging on, and because i think itd be funny!

DO anything for a quiet life op, your family is far more important than battling someone who you dont care about.

Look after you and yours first

OohAahBird · 11/02/2014 10:23

Hope your feeling better, and everything is ok

Kytti · 11/02/2014 23:52

Glad you're OK Mrsdavidcaruso, been loving your thread and log back in often to chortle! Big hugs and look after yourself. Cake

toastedteacake · 12/02/2014 13:21

Is it bin day?

Anything to report?

Mrsdavidcaruso · 12/02/2014 15:33

Bin Day was yesterday and went ok

However it has been decided to use remote control parking posts
www.ultrasecuredirect.com/acatalog/Battery_Powered_Remote_Control_Automatic_Parking_Bollard.html

This will stop people parking and allow me to use the driveway with pushchair /pram as I will be able to walk between them - we have got 4

Only they came today and BIL and DH have been having fun with them

They will be installed on Sunday morning and if anyones car is parked
in the parking area they are going to have to get us to lower them.

We didn't need planning permission and I have been told no-one can drive over them when they are up - but we shall see

OP posts:
CSIJanner · 12/02/2014 16:23

Oh - I'm loving this update! Grin

Morgause · 12/02/2014 16:25
Damnautocorrect · 12/02/2014 16:26

Remote control- awesome! Bin woman's going to explode

MarysDressSways · 12/02/2014 17:07

Ooo. Is that temporary until you've fenced/landscaped it then?

Do you reckon some of them will just refuse to move their cars on the 15th (and thus get blocked in by your amazing gadgets!)? Will they have to park miles away?

minibmw2010 · 12/02/2014 17:12

I'm guessing they've already agreed amongst themselves to stay put and refuse to move their cars in a 'and what are they going to do about it' kind of way .... Smile They'll soon see ...

TheDoctrineOfSnatch · 12/02/2014 17:12

Good stuff!

Mrsdavidcaruso · 12/02/2014 17:18

Yes these will be temporary until we get the garden sorted

If their cars are parked there on Sunday morning they are not going to get out.

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AlpacaLypse · 12/02/2014 17:21

Smile at the bollard thingies.

So sorry you had such a scare on Sunday.

bumbleymummy · 12/02/2014 17:22

They look great :) Hope you're feeling better.

StarSwirl92 · 12/02/2014 17:36

marking my place, hope the 15th passes without incident.