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To buy this land and risk upsetting the tenants next door

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Mrsdavidcaruso · 04/01/2014 12:31

Long story short. My house is at the back of a large house which was converted into flats last year. I own the freehold to my property and have had problems with the tenants of the flats parking on what is actually my land. It got bad when the LL of the large house 'rented' a part of my property to one of his tenants as an extra parking space and it took a long time and solicitors letters to get it all sorted.

I also had to spend money on getting bollards and a fence to ensure no-one parked on my property.

My property is at the end of a T shape and I part is used as a passage to my house ( I have legal access over it) and a parking area for 5 cars rented by the LL to his tenants

However because of all the problems my solicitor has done some digging to ensure my legal right of way and that nothing comes back to bite me on the bum with the owners of the large house.

It then got interesting - it seems that the LL bought the large house at auction on a 99 year lease. My Solicitor saw the legal pack and there was no mention of the land on the paperwork.

He has now found out through the freeholder that the land does not actually belong to the large house but to the house next door.

The freeholder of the house next door has confirmed yes its his land but as he does not live in the house was unaware that the LL of the large house was using it as far as he was aware only I had access to it.

He has now contacted my Solicitors and offered to sell me the land, If I don’t want to buy he is going to offer the LL the chance to lease it from him but if he does that I am worried about my own access across it.

I am very tempted I can enlarge my garden and my husband (who rents a garage ) can also park his car on the property we can afford it and it may increase the value of my house and provide a safer environment for my DS and bump when he/she arrives.

But that is not going to sit well with the tenants of the large house and I can forsee huge problems with them as a couple were very abusive to me during the problem with the parking before.

I have a couple of weeks to decide. I know it would not fair to the tenants but its something they will have to take up with their LL as either he has been badly advised/mistaken or is chancing his arm renting out parking spaces when he knows its not his land (I suspect the latter).

According to my Solicitor there would be no legal or planning issues if I wanted to change the area to a larger garden (although I will check with the council myself)

So would I be UR to buy it

OP posts:
Featherbag · 05/02/2014 22:49

Any new happenings OP?

Patchouli · 06/02/2014 13:03

Just parking in your space marking my place.
Looking forward to the middle of Feb

iheartdusty · 06/02/2014 18:25

Place park mark

ThePearShapedToad · 08/02/2014 11:15

How's it going op?

SquinkiesRule · 08/02/2014 17:42

Anything happened yet?

Mrsdavidcaruso · 09/02/2014 15:04

We have had a few problems now especially with a couple of them (bin lady being one) on Saturday morning one of them had a visitor who parked right behind my car so DH could not get out ( his car is poorly) so he called BIL who came and parked his big work van right across the tenants parking and refused to move it until the other car was moved so lots of shouting and moaning yesterday.

Anyway it went quiet and then at 11pm last night I started to bleed and felt really poorly DH was panicking and phoned BIL to come and look after DS whilst he took me to hospital (back now and baby ok) anyway whilst BIL was looking after things his van was actually parked across bin ladies car (it was dark when he parked it so didnt notice so he says) anyway this morning at 7.30 she banged on the door and demanded BIL moved it but DS was still in bed and he was not going to leave a 3 year old alone in the house even if he was asleep so told her to take a hike, he moved it at 11am when he bought DS to the hospital as he was crying for me.

Anyway I am back home now and all is OK and quite again

OP posts:
Mrsdavidcaruso · 09/02/2014 15:09

Sorry quiet and quite

OP posts:
TheDoctrineOfSnatch · 09/02/2014 15:11

I am glad you are OK but think your BIL was a bit unreasonable not to move his van as soon as your DS woke up...

Mrsdavidcaruso · 09/02/2014 15:16

Yes you are right The Doctrine but DS was very upset from the moment he got up and BIL is not used to small DCs so I think he was a bit frazzled

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orangedog · 09/02/2014 15:19

If binlady parked her car on OP's land, then BIL was not being unreasonable by not moving his van.
Binlady has been told the land is private. Tough shit if she parks there and gets blocked in.

shoom · 09/02/2014 15:27

Sorry to hear you're still getting bother from them, even though they know you own they land and are allowing them to park there as a favour. Only a week or so left though until they are banned?

shoom · 09/02/2014 15:30

BIL was unreasonable? Well maybe, but any tenant blocking in DH's car could find their parking privileges rescinded immediately.

RandomMess · 09/02/2014 15:37

Sounds like none of them have done anything about actually finding alternatively parking does it Confused.

How much longer have they got left? Can't find your post with the date on.

RandomMess · 09/02/2014 15:39

Found it now - the 15th so Saturday then.

blahe · 09/02/2014 15:56

If they carry on parking on the op's land what can she actually do about it though?

RaptorInaPorkPieHat · 09/02/2014 16:09

The main thing is you're ok, OP.

Don't get too stressed out by the parking issues Thanks

TheDoctrineOfSnatch · 09/02/2014 16:11

Poor BIL, I can imagine!

Do you know what you are going to do next Saturday? Put up cones? Park across the spaces?

Mrsdavidcaruso · 09/02/2014 17:22

Not sure Doctrine looks like we are going to get those retractable parking barriers but DH is sorting that out As I haven't been that well

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QOD · 09/02/2014 17:36

You ok though op?

SauvignonBlanche · 09/02/2014 17:50

Sorry to hear you've not been well Flowers.
Get the fence up - you don't need the hassle.

FarOverTheRainbow · 09/02/2014 17:58

Shamelessly marking place.

Glad to here your okay OP

ButICantaloupe · 09/02/2014 18:05

Hope you are ok, OP.

P.S this thread is amazing. It's like a parking thread on steroids.

WinterDrawsOff · 09/02/2014 18:06

I hope you are feeling better OP. Thanks

Cuddlydragon · 09/02/2014 18:06

I'm sorry to hear you had a scare OP. I hope you are on the mend and the baby is ok. You know what, you just don't need the stress. Let them do whatever the hell they want for the rest of the week, except bin lady, I'd block her in every chance you get! Take care of yourself.

TheDoctrineOfSnatch · 09/02/2014 18:10

Sounds like a good idea and hope all progresses peacefully with the pregnancy and the parking from here!

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