Dh and dd are well out of order!!

[Coldleftoversforme]

I've started a low carbs and no sugar diet today. I've managed to get to this time with out caving. Which is good as I've an issue with chocolate and for the past two months I've had it for breakfast!

I'm heavier now than when I gave birth a year ago and dh need to lose weight as well , infact more than me, but I really hate my body at the moment.

I notice the time and remarked how well I'd done, dd (18) said well done .

Dh then went in to the kitchen and brought in the fucking barrel of haribio and stated laughing when he came back in!

Dd said "oh I'll have a packet " so he threw her some.

I said " don't do that, I'm trying really hard"

Dh replied " remember when I was trying to diet and you asked me to bring you a KFC home?"

It was two fucking years ago!

I've stormed off to bed, shouting they were both out of order . Honestly I'm brimming back tears - it's pathetic I know but I can really feel bad sugar cravings and head aches. There is a jar of Nutella down stairs, which I could just take a spoon to.

I heard dh saying to dd " she needs help her! "

I know IBU but it fucking sucks!!!

That's a lil mean :( but well done. If you like we can swap my aniexty has got so bad I haven't been able to eat anything bar one mini egg for to days :( xxx

It was two years ago, but you still did it!

Well done! Why did you ask your husband to bring you a KFC if he was on a diet?

coldlight I have a cup of tea and in bed .

pumpkin I'm not sure, I think it was late and there was no dinner made and I just said grab one- I maybe making that up in my mind though!

louise what's your anxiety , if you don't mind me asking

coco it did make me sad though

I don't understand why that make you cry tbh.

It is just some Haribos. Just because you are dieting doesn't they have to.

Plus you did KFC him...

Well done for staying in control, but you can't expect other people to not eat just because you are trying to lose weight

Hope you have a better day tomorrow. You need to rise above the others. Try smug.

I used to get angry too, used to think they ought to want things as easy as possible for me. It was only when I changed my opinion and got used to the idea it had to be me and that I was paying the price of past problems that I actually accepted and settled in to my new life.

I lost my weight, went from a size 22 to a size 8. I still struggle now at times but that's my problem. I will go in the bath if I need to wait out the demons.

Cold, I've been doing the 5 2 for a year and on the fasting days, I tend to have a verrry early bedtime. No sense in staying up late feeling you could gnaw the leg off a panda.

Seems rather hypocritical of you if you essentially did the same thing to him, just because it was a couple of years ago doesn't mean it no longer counts.

Besides if you want any diet to work long term you need to learn to be able to watch others eat food without needing to eat yourself, you have to get used to it sometime.

It is just some Haribos.

I don't know. I heard tell of someone who surrendered 20 years of vegetarianism to go back on the fearsome Haribo...

YABU to expect them not to have things because you are choosing not to

Regarding the crying- I'm over it. I think it was because I'd been fending off sugar demons and dh went and brought it in and I crumbled.

The rational side if me us creeping back in, I know I can't expect them to diet too

pump what's that???

yarn you can't dug up crap from two years ago!!

dig

Cold, it's a fasting diet. Five days of normal (within reason) eating and 2 days of a max 500 calories per day (600 for men). Fast days should not be consecutive. It was the diet of 2013 and actually worked for me, although my head was absolutely splitting for the first few weeks.

Pumpkin Is that healthy? Genuine question. Wouldn't your body crash out?

YABU. Haribos are minging and not worth crying over. But then so is KFC so your husband shouldn't be harping on about that either.

pump did you lose noticeable weight?

Look Iwilltry were talking tangfantastics here .......

5:2 is fab. Loads of threads on here about it. I lost 4 stone last year.