DH reading my posts and comments is getting on my tits.

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He is now 'mentioning' his displeasure at my rare DH comments.
I made the mistake of telling him how much I was getting out of MN and how entertaining the humorous posts are. It's pretty obvious who I am as I'm time through particularly individual circumstances at the moment so he's spotted me. He told me this morning that he wasn't happy for me to put stuff about my DH. WTF! Get off the site!
I'm cross and changing my user name won't help as I want to continue to post on threads I've come to like and appreciate / need at the moment (health worries, in particular). I'm not being unreasonable am I? Get off MY / our site!

Get off MY / our site!

YABU just for this.

Hi I am on your other thread in health Ok you mentioned he has a tendency to be a bit grumpy, but if he is good to you in taking care of you after your op he will get a lot of kudos with MNers for that. And we'll even overlook a bit of grumpiness if he is generally a good guy when he is needed most. Anybody who nurses their partner in a supportive way, whilst running the household is an absolute star in my book and I think most people on here would agree. So do yourself a favour goodness dh and set up your own account and you will get a lot of appreciation for looking after your DW, there is even a dadsnet if you prefer a more manly atmosphere.

Good idea, Reviving. I'll suggest it to him.

If I knew DP was wiring about me in forums I'd be very curious as to what he's saying.

And I'd expect him to talk to me about our relationship problems if there were any.

I think he should appreciate your need to talk to people on here though and get their insight on things. It's good to discuss, it's a good way to destress and vent. It's not fair if you feel that's being invaded.

It's not odd for men to be on here.

A joint account is a bit though why not just have your own? Whatever floats your boat I suppose.

To those of you commenting on our joint membership - DW had lurked on MN for a while and often showed me threads which had caught her interest. Eventually we lurked together (that phrase sounds odd somehow) and we decided that joining was the natural thing to do. There are two main reasons for our joint membership 1) We find it more interesting talking about posts, and sometimes responding, by being on together 2) More practical - DW has rheumatoid arthritis. She never complains about this and copes amazingly, but her hands are particularly affected and she has extreme difficulty with typing. She does all of her own letters, emails etc because she can take all the time she needs to do it. However on sites like MN where you want to bang something in quickly it's easier for me to do it, but her input is as least as much as mine.

It may seem as though we are two old farts who can't do anything separately, but we do have other different interests.

We hope this explains little of why we are 2OfUs and, if anyone has read it we hope we haven't bored you to tears.